After first date i feel like its game over. why?

I seem to have this weird problem. I can walk up to any girl, say whatever you want me to say.. if i want to, i can #-close and if im really on fire, i could probably k-close.
but after the first date, i feel like the girl never wants to see me again.. we dont have awkward silences, always talk about something, smile a lot, eat, walk.. and i sometimes end up getting a quick kiss on the lips (quick.. like muah and bye) and then i feel like that's it, game over.

the other day, i got a model to go out with and she asked if her 2 model friends could join and if i could bring 2 guys to hook them up.. so great! i did.. everything seemed awesome.. i was with my girl, the boys were with their girls (that i assigned to them lol) and good to go. but my buddy was doing better than me even though he is usually scared approaching girls but he knows how to talk and keep everything going.

he is cocky like big time and some girls hate that and i let him know that but i guess those 3 girls loved it.. anyways, what im trying to ask is, why can i easily get the girl, get approval from her friends (that we are good) and not being able to even k-close properly?
i mean, we were walking, i put my arm around her waist, 80% of the time we were walking, she was on heels complaining all the time that she cant walk.. we played the cube game and she enjoyed it, but i just felt this weird distance between us. at one point when we were stopped, i said "give me a kiss"
her: "no.."
me: "ok, your loss :b"
her: "not now.." (her friends were around which is reasonable)

You have all the hard stuff down, you will be getting girls left and right in no time. The problem is, that you are talking about ending the night with a kiss, when in fact, the kiss should be happening very early in the night and progress from there. You need to learn about proper use of Sexual Tension. You aren't building a sense of strong sexual attraction. The woman is having a lot of fun, but the sexual vibe isn't there. She isn't leaving, feeling like she wants you. You need to introduce sexual innuendo into your talk. You need to touch her in ways that are sexually suggestive. A quick brush past her thigh or the edge of her breast. You need to let the conversation lull occasionally, and drill her with a lustful look right between the eyes. Lean in close and let your breath tickle the back of her neck, or whisper something to her and let your lips almost brush hers. These instances will have her thinking naughty thoughts and wanting you so bad that she will basically rape you, in spite of her friends. The key is to do this, but don't give in to her(and your) desires as soon as possible. Play it out a bit. Make her wait a little, and then YOU pick the time and place for the first kiss.

Asking for a kiss, or waiting to kiss the girl good night are both very weak moves. If you are truly as good as you say you are with asking women out and being the alpha male, you are selling yourself very well at the start. However, because you don't go after the woman, and make your sexual desire clear through your looks and actions, the women is going to feel that you don't really have interest in her, because you are acting in contradiction to your initial image.

SleekB - give this a read: The first date Blueprint

Direct URL: http://www.puaforums.com/go.php?id=firstdate

It's a little PDF my friends put together... (coincidentally, it is pretty much exactly what I do when I am going on a first date). That makes sense though, since my good friend wrote it and we have a similar philosophy towards women and dating.

Let me know if it resonates with you and if I can help in any way.

BP

Geeze Bill! That method takes about five freaking hours to bed the woman, that is sssssssooooooooo long...

Just kidding. Great little manual.