Kissing a Smoker.

Howdy, I'm 19 and have been studying the community for around 8 months now. I prefer to work on building my natural game rather then Mystery's method.

I'm sure I wasn't the only one who went to Soundwave in Brisbane Australia last weekend, and through luck my mate introduced me to a cute 22 year old nurse.

I have been self reflecting and picked up on my own issues with natural Kino-escalation, still slightly over-negging and conversation. We still had a great time. I even enticed her to go into a mush pit for the first time (Trivium).

In the end I got her number and she texted me first. I'm happy with the result but have no intentions of perusing her.

One problem: She smokes, and I have never kissed a smoker which is a big issue for me.

How do the non-smokers here manage with smokers? Is it a major problem?

I'm a non-smoker and have kissed girls who smoked. Maybe it's just me, but it didn't hold me back in any way. I just don't taste it (you do smell it though, but that's probably just the clothes).

Thanks, that is similar advice to what I am hearing. I asked a girl at work yesterday and was told the same.

Well my advice: If it is that big of an issue, drop her and find someone else. You're allowed to be picky. You SHOULD be picky about what you want. Personally, I find a regular smoker an absolute turn-off. I'll smoke a cigar now and again, but it is a dirty habit, and I don't like the lingering smell of stale/cheap tobacco. Therefore, though smoking wouldn't stop me from a casual fling, I definitely wouldn't get serious with a regular smoker. It really comes down to you. You should be the one deciding what is appropriate for you.

Great advice GunsnGlory. I took advantage of the close to test out what I have learned with texting game. I am very surprised with how well it works. This is an awesome community.

I've made out with a good number of girls in clubs and i'm sure a good number of them were smokers (i'm not). It never has bothered me except one time. New Years Eve in vegas this year I started dancing with a girl at about 11:30 and I said that we should make out at midnight. Things were going good until 1 minute before midnight she pulls out her "last" cigarette. First time I had kissed a girl who had just finished a cigarette and it was gross. So as long as they haven't just finished a cig I wouldn't worry too much about it.

Zeus is right, I also dated a smoker and I didn't taste it at all unless she just finished a cigarette before kissing.

Keep some gum on you to give her before you kiss, it is a perfect neg too. Anyone should put in some gum before they kiss. That is just gross not to, even if you don't smoke you can have some raunchy breath.

Lol its not to bad man

Man, this thing depends so much... WHAT IF SHE IS A HEAVY SMOKER?

I don't smoke, but already kissed smokers and "social smokers" (that kind of people that want a cigarette once in a while). I don't kiss right after they had a cigarette and when they want to, I'm honest and say that I don't like to kiss someone with weird breath.

And the heavy smokers... Well, I just stay away from them.