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Originally Posted by compgeni Ever sence I've been discovering this stuff I've been working on Game. It's been changing my life.
Short Background:
As a little kid I was naturally very friendly and have no problems with confidence and approaches. Even in middle school I had girlfriends. Then in HS I lost it and didn't talk to anyone, literally going to the bathroom for lunch. I'm out of that now thanks to studying pickup getting into inner game. I can still approach anyone and talk about almost anything if only for short periods.
Situation:
I've got girls that like me at verrying degrees. That part is wicked easy. It's time to start practicing and going further. I think I can handle most girls in "regular" situations. I've gotten numbers. More to come on that later, I'm focusing on a particular challenge that test my skills the most.
Particular Challenge:
A girl, Girl A, comes into my store (I work as a customer service rep). I know she likes me, she compliments me and even took the time to introduce herself. I never really talk to her on a personal level, there is not always alot of time to do so. Occasionally, her room mate comes in as well by herself. I tell the roommate 'tell girl a she has the poorest sence of timing'. Roommate laughs, and sais she would. This tells me a couple things. 1) I'm right, girl a likes me. 2) They talk, roommate knows. 3) Girl A likely comes in to see me (and discuss her technical issues, but I've seen her more and more recently)
I need ideas to proceed without showing too much interest. I also can't really do a proper time bridge in this situation because of varying schedules and little interaction time. I was thinking a very direct give me your number approach and calling her later to do.....what? Lets get those creative juices flowing, what should I do? |
If you have 100% certainty that she likes I'd go
Direct Game. You no longer need to beat around the bushes. In-direct game is only used so it's harder to get rejected right off the bat.
You can say "hey, I see you all the time, but I never had a chance to get to know you better. You seem interesting. Here, put your number here (give her your cell phone) and we'll go for a coffee sometime."
Use time constraint to end it off nicely -> "I gotta get back to work, I'll call you soon" and take your leave.
Note: please make sure you are really going to do it if you say you will call. She will be anticipating for your call.