Hi all,
just registered so please kind that I haven't read through all entries yet. I'd ask the community for help/advise.
I'll try to keep it short. I'm European (german native) and currently traveling Costa Rica, got texted by girl to hang out. Yesterday I met her and her friends and it was a good group. She texted me and wanted to meet me because she wants to backpack Europe with her friend next year.
I had a good chat with her and her friends, it was a good evening. Sooner than expected she left with her older sister, I think she had to and because of work today. I got a solid hug, stronger than usually and she took care of me the whole evening. Of course she did as I came alone , don't know the city, people, etc... but I felt the hug was stronger than usually. My resume would be that she is the playette, because:
Tester: she is single, has more male friends than female on facebook (we are not friends yet on fb, could only see the list), young (24, I'm 31) and looks for the adventure (backpacking Europe)
Denier: non-smoker, religious, no tattoos (has tunnels in her ear though but thats pretty common in CR)
Idealist: her plans on traveling Europe are more based on dreams, doesn't really have plans how to do it, and talks about settling there etc... I've been traveling for 1 year now and I know how much organisation it takes (finances, insurances, etc....) beforehand.
So my questions:
- Am I right with playette?
- What questions do you ask to know which type she is?
- How long do you wait to get in touch with her after a meeting like that? (she started the first contact, etc... I think I should text her and be thankful for the evening, but I'm not sure if I should ask for the next meeting as this could be some kind of pressure.... playette says you should be casual).
Thanks a lot for your help!!!!