The Solo Project

I decided its time for me to take a step forward and work on building something for myself and for others. mainly for myself since this is something that will push me into another area of PU.

Ive read a lot about solo sarging but i knot there are very knowledgeable people in here and i know i may get some extra info about it.

What i read that caught my attention is that, when solo sarging you develop far and beyond of what you can develop if you sarge with friends. for opening you have to learn how to do it alone anyways, if you manage to disable cockblocks alone it will make you selfsuficient and a wing will not be needed. Most of the time when you hang out with friends you step back and have too much fun messing around and it becomes a crutch.

ELIMINATE ALL CRUTCHES. thats what i want to do. most important is the fact that this dry spell is killing me. what Mystery says its true. DONT masturbate, it will make you jump into the picture, if you are scared or anxious being dry will help you push this sh1t into the side.

This dry spell will not end by itself. Its time i step up to the plate and i do what im destined to do.

I want ZERO negativity here about this, if you have words of caution with something to teach me then thanks but if you dont or you fail at solo sarging keep that for yourself.

What do you guys believe is a reachable goal? I dont mean numbers here, i cant fark a number, i mean poon. What should i aim for? i think that i can run the 5 pubs/bars that are close to each other in the area where i can hang out in a matter of 1 to 2 hours. Those are open until 1:30 AM. should i go all the way into closing time? do you guys think a fair time to get there is 12:00?

the only thing i have to do is find the mental place where im comfortable. pushing my limits and evolving in situations where im not comfortable will surely make me stronger and a better PUA. Tomorrow im going to play poker in a pub maybe i get to open some sets. But this thursday its time for me to start this Project.

Wish me luck!

i thinks its part of my destiny to take this path, i havent found a wing in the 3 months ive been looking for it. Maybe this is the way i have to evolve and grow.

I go out around 830 have drinks then eat dinner then head out to the bar. That's my patern. Sometimes I will meet a chick at the first place having the first drink and can get them to dinner that night. Like u said hats my patern. I Like to have time to work that way I don't feel as much pressure.

what should i aim for? open some sets? # closes or what?

im putting pressure on myself to actually Fclose some girls in these next two or 3 weeks. either way, whatever i do, will get me learning.

so tonight it is...

"im putting pressure on myself to actually Fclose some girls in these next two or 3 weeks"

NO. Pressure yourself to go out and have fun. Do not make this an outcome dependent event.

First report:

The first report is in. Bill your advice for me is wrong. Im uncontrollable and i will not progress if i keep having too much fun. Last night was one of those nights. Too much fun and not a lot of progress. So no i have to pressure myself that i have to eliminate all the crutches out of my life and i need to Calibrate and test and retest my game here.

The LOCAL SCENE:

Every game has to be calibrated to the place where you use and the culture of the people there. Out here the dating scene is like the climate, HOT. The bitch shields are like playing the lottery. You got the inexperienced girls that will get caught playing in the hot dating seen and they will fall prey to motherfarkers like me(hopefully). Then you got the experienced kind, we call them... let me try to translate it, the cock erecters(they love to get you hard and they leave you hard). those know what they are doing and will not fall prey unless they want to.

We dance reggaeton which is a very sexual dance, you will see it in a couple links ive added here, please dont start massively booking flights here , i dont need more competition.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rb96lwcgrh0
YouTube - mix perreo

so much for Kino Escalation LOL

its that without the floor sh1t and you also get to dance face to face. in fact face to face is more common.

its easy to K close during one of those dances if you are getting eye contact but like i say yesterday many girls when they felt it was coming started looking away and even closing their eyes. thats nothing more than a defense mechanism. if you get eye contact you take her home.

Last night i went into a pub, had an OK time, drank two beers found a guy i knew, talked with him for like a min then went out and the place was packed, i could do anything, i was frustrated, could get to open sets. came out of there kinda frustrated. started smoking(i dont but i brought the pack in case i got bored) and just went into another place. the other pub was kinda half dead but there was sets i could open. i formally opened ONE set and got it nowhere by using a situational. i didnt stack anything. didnt asked for her name, didnt asked her to dance with me. was doing alright while i was opening, she was leaning into me but was kinda silent and i went out in a weird way.

she had the hottest ass ive seen in a loooooooong time. wow that thing was amazing, i would have killed myself if i didnt get to talk to her. at least i did....tried my worse

i know that for the next one i will create time constraints and at least take a shot at it you know, ask her name and ask her to dance with me. worse that could happen is that she says no. what do i lose by that. i need to build funny stories to make these girls laugh and have more fun.

by the time i opened that i was starting to get buzzed, then i met to friends and sarging went to hell. i tried ditching them later but i failed to find sets and took my crutch(friends) and went back into AFC land. They were AFCs.

with that set i opened i learned a bit and its time to go sarging again. i may go out today again. My day game is doing good but my night game has to grow by leaps and bounds. better yet the theory is saved here in my head and its ready to be used but i have 0 recent experience. At least im not scared of talking to hot women.

I have a agree with Bill i think you are putting to much pressure on yourself. Stop thinking about sex and start thinking about giving that woman the best experience she will ever have in her life. Its about attitude, simple as that. If all you are thinking about is fclosing a woman is gonna see that and be turned off by that. Best words of advise i ever got were to simply be more chill.

Just my .02

Second entry:

Two more sets blown after a pretty stupid night. One thing i dont understand is I was getting IOIs at least on one..... i mean.... aarrrgg let me offer a lil background.

we went into a place that looks like a small carnival every weekend. without knowing how it was. THE PLACE IS A SPOT FOR GAYS ON SATURDAYS. I can easily see that both sets i open were TWO sets of two women and that they had things that made me think they were GAY.

this next week is going to be free from the university and i will try to hangout on the usual places at least on 3 days of that week. There wont be as many girls because the university is closed for like 10 days but ill try my best. I also have to study because my HB10 wants to study together one night

I also got 3 STUDENTS and i have one of them with a promising attitude. Only problem is they are terrified of cold approaching. One of them looks like can try because when i opened one of the sets last night he went on to talk to the other girl.

im learning, im learning a lot from my mistakes and from the things ive been seeing. I did apply the relaxed, have fun/make her have fun attitude.

lmao general rule of thumb.... dont go to a gay club to pick up chicks.... ill keep that in mind.

Have fun this week let us know how it goes!