Hot sex, now seems off?

met this chick a while ago, she lives a couple of hours away.

came down to visit me twice, we spent the whole time in bed, really got on with each other, both opened up alot, amazing sex. saw her last about 3 weeks back, (she even sent me some sexy photos

saw her last 3 weeks ago. ive had another chick Flake on me so my confidence took a blow and i guess i started cltchin at straws and was a bit needy. 'hey babe, wanna see you etc'

she says shes had no credit. probably true and shes studying for a finals writing essays n sh1t so i guess shes been busy. buuuut, called her yesterday and after a tiny chat she asked if i could call her back today. called her today she was shoppin said shed get some credit soon. still said, call me'tonight' or 'sometime' when i asked if shed come down again in her easter break she said, yea i guess so.

wither way, something seems a bit off.

mighta met someother dude in the town shes in?

i wasnt needy on the call today, and sent her a really sexual text last night that im sure got her goin a little bit.

basicly should i not call atall? back off and let her initiate? especially atleast till shes on her break? or has had time to buy credit?

got a problem cause where i wasnt too bothered, i realise i do actually like her quite a bit and shes sexy as ass. so... help a brotha out!

i would slow play it. Dont call her or text her. For a few days at least, then somthing playful. Women want to feeled purseud but when you give them that needy thing they Flake cause its just to much and looks weak on your part. Your alright and can still make itwork, esp since you have already had this woman in your bed, just dont be so needy and build a solid frame of confidence and independence.

cheers for the feedback mate

all in all ive only texted her/called about 4 times if that in 3 weeks. should i wait completely for her to get some credit? like 2 weeks sorta thing? (she then has holiday for a month) leave it in her court entirely? im wondering.. its allmost like i shoulda had more contact in those weeks,.. but i guess its hard if she cant reply.. no banter. bahhh

If she likes you and is just busy then she will hit you up before you know it. I wouldnt worry to much, you are putting to much weight on it and just needs to be pulled back a little. There is no set time frame of when you should and shouldnt hit her up. But next time you do text her make it something playful and somthing that is gonna make her think. That will make her want to talk to you more.

Based on my experience, when its around holidays or school breaks, girls usually get credit to make sure they can stay connected with friends.

So i'd say she's just none too sure about you so she keeps you around (hanging) but is not that interested. Best that one moves on, given the same situation.

I think that love should not be mixed with any of the methods.

Plus, some girls just really like being adored. Maybe you're just the only one keeping her interested... and the others are more interesting.

Believe that women are actually aggressive when it comes to men they like. Or at least, proactive.

Sounds to me like she is just busy man...