Help Needed...

First, a little background information. I've been reading newsletters the past couple of months but havent really applied a specific "system." I use the conversational techniques, a little bit of cocky funny, and i quickly escalate Kino.

Now the question I have is that I've met this girl about 2/3 weeks ago, HB8-9, conversation flows between us, and we have talked about her bf who she has been dating for close to 6 months. This is probably a good sign but when I flirt, touch, etc... she doesn't say "Oh, I have a boyfriend." Some clarification would be greatly appreciated here

The next thing, we got onto the topic of my cousin (a mutual friend) and how he got me into partying and such. I told her about my past smoking weed and drinking it did not really seem to bother her, she actually laughed and was like "wow you actually got high the first time?" except when I asked her if she had ever been high before (bf is a smoker) she blushed, giggled, and acted like she had no idea what we were talking about. Could this be her trying to preserve the image/value she has built up?

Thanks again, Michael

probly so.

Update- She told me today she is breaking up with her boyfriend because attraction is gone.

I would venture to guess her lack of attraction for him is a function of him being needy and supplicative and you being neither and more interesting. Sooo... don't wuss out and be needy, keep your aggressive frame. Don't change now that she is interested in you... remember why she was interested in you and keep that up.

Thanks, Bill. I'll keep that in mind, hopefully I can k-close soon.