Online: Need some advice

I have never talked to this girl before but while searching my online friends on facebook i saw her there and decided to open with jealous gf. It went pretty well until i tryed to make it personal.
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8:23pmMichael
i need a girl's opinion on something

8:24pmBrittnee
hey ask away

8:24pmMichael
if you were dating a guy and he had pictures of his exs would you get mad?

8:25pmBrittnee
What kind of pix?

8:25pmMichael
nothing bad, just them together and old love notes and sh1t

8:26pmBrittnee
UM old love note i think id get a little mad bc Your dating me and still have that stuff

why do you have that stuff? and is your gf mad at you

8:27pmMichael
you wouldnt keep the memories? its my friend, i always have to help him solve his problems

8:27pmBrittnee
?

8:28pmMichael
huh

8:30pmBrittnee
okay why do you ask?

8:32pmBrittnee
?

8:33pmMichael
i thought a girl would understand wanting to keep that emotional attachment

8:35pmBrittnee
I mean its just like a little hurtful bc like you have that and have a girl friend I mean I would understand but some girls wouldnt

8:36pmMichael
yeah. do you think guys actually understand what girls want?

8:36pmBrittnee
Its okay to have that stuff it just mean that your like an emotional guy and thats a good thing

what do you mean?

8:37pmMichael
the age old question of "what a woman wants" do you think guys know what women want

8:38pmBrittnee
Some do but some dont have a clue

8:39pmMichael
ahhh i see. i think most girls dont even know themselves

8:39pmBrittnee
Some dont either but do you want my opinion?

8:39pmMichael
of course i do dork. lol thats why i asked

8:40pmBrittnee
Oh okay lol

8:42pmBrittnee
Well I want a guy who can be there for me through tough situations. A nice sweet understanding guy. but a tough not a dork kind of guy. like a tough guy on the outside but a sweet guy om the inside. He cant be a stalker or a over protecive guy bc I have more guy friends than girlfriends. And idk what else i guess ill just have to wait and see.

8:44pmMichael
you seem to know what you want. the way i look at it girls have two personalitys. the socially programmed one, the side that sticks to what everyone else says she should do. and then the side deep inside of her where she keeps the fantasies, her desires and dreams.

8:46pmBrittnee
I guess im not that kind of girl I dont follow sioeties way of how things should be

but i guess your right

what do guys want?

8:48pmMichael
that is extremely attractive when a girl can do her own thing and not care what everyone thinks. to be honest i cant say what guys want. personally i want a good time, if you can make me laugh you're in.

8:49pmBrittnee
lol thats stright forward. I just dont understand why guys cant be straight forward?

8:51pmMichael
most guys put on a shell to seem tough outside. very few have the confidence to say what they want without worrying about other's opinions

8:53pmBrittnee
I dont understand why they would .. yah know why not take a risk and why care about what others think. ppl stay in the box and never break out. and then they look back and wonder what if?

8:55pmMichael
that is the socially programmed side of people. we are raised to always be angels, sometimes that isnt the best thing. we come out sheltered and socially awkward if you worry about other people all the time

8:56pmBrittnee
Def you are so right! But its a good thing to bust out f twhat soicety. Why not be different and have an independent opinion
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This is all i have saved of the convo. after that i said "enough about other people, let's get to know eachother" she responded with "do you always ask girls a question then want to get to know them?" I answered with "well maybe, depends on if i need an answer or not (:"
She signed off before i could get anything else. How could i handle this situation next time?

well it seems like she has already seemed to open up to you...but the last comment about the..do you always ask girls a question and then get to know them...it seems like she saw u as being player-ish. I think she is attracted to you. During this conversation you def. expressed confidence and inner game so just maybe doing a joke for next time about asking a question and getting to know her. It will remind her of your confidence and then also make her laugh. Do what you would usually do, just next time make the conversation a little lighter so you dont scare her since she def. called you on your routine to talk to her. Anybody else have some ideas

how should i start the next interaction to keep it light, yet keep/build rapport and #-close?

well you know the basic idea. Have confidence be chill and build your rapport the way you usually do. Ok well maybe instead of keeping it completely light. Keep the beginning light. Make a funny interaction to start it off and try and see if she has a little bit to talk. If so try building the conversation slowly at first and then amp it up a little trying to build rapport and connect with her. Deep stories that have influenced you, but the influence should be general so she can share something similar that happened to her

okay, so far it is working. I am talking to her now, i will post the convo afterward

alright my brother...get that ass...im telling you she is feeling you right now. but you have to kill that vibe of coming off playerish. and bam got that ass...lol yes im am drunk right now my brother

Haha its all good man. I texted her after i got the number and kept up the joke about the doctor





Michael

so do you have an answer for me tonight
9:58pmBrittnee

Uhh i dont really wanna talk to any1 Im going through alot right now and I dont think I can handle a boyfriend at this time. Im sorry
9:59pmMichael

now who said anything about a boyfriend
9:59pmBrittnee

Well I ment talk to a guy. Im not ready.
10:00pmMichael

everybody needs a person to make them laugh (:
10:01pmBrittnee

Yeah but my laughing box has been broken
10:04pmBrittnee

But thanks for the offer
10:04pmMichael

well hun, at least let me call the doctor and see what they can do for ya
10:05pmBrittnee

wh thats so cute!
lol
*awh
10:06pmMichael

i need a number to give them to contact you
10:06pmBrittnee

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Im gonna get off facebook so I guess ill ttyl
peace
10:07pmMichael

nice talking to you. hopefully we can get your laughing box checked out

ok so you got her number? Nice but dont make this your only funny routine. maybe if you meet up and she laughs make it a big deal. Like..
Her: haha
Me: omg i cant believe it. you can laugh again, its so amazing
Her: laughs even harder
Me: i knew with persistence we could save you cute laugh.
Her: awww thanks hun.

I can see the conversation going something like that. But you need to make sure your funny about more than just that. Other than that i think you have this locked down. Just try to maybe use some cold reading on this girl. I think if you guys have a good deep chat about things that you can throw in some cold reading from VinDicarlos pandoras box and you should be set. i will actually post a thread with some cold reading statements on it so guys have examples and can make their own from their. But first you have to figure what type of girl she is and ill put that on there as well.

okay thanks. i can do funny, the cold readings im not too sure about...i just read The Game and he mentioned a cold read about guessing the initials of a friend from the past. any idea how that works?

well im not sure but that helps have you relate to her. It shows that you care about friends but that it might also set you up for a story to help build attraction with her. Im not quite sure cause i havent read the game yet but online im not quite sure that would work. just imagine that
Me: hey hows it going, i saw you online and thought you were really familiar. do u have a friend with ___
Her: um yeah i knew someone like that but we werent quite that close

where do u go from there. cause then you will be pushy trying to start more conversations with her and she could just ignore you