Girl being defensive

oh man what are you worried about.?? really, so a girl who came over when she knew this was going to happen, and then say "were friends" in between french kisses really means it...haha hell no. Thats like a girl saying im a virgin while farking. haha All she is basically saying is that you are starting to be submissive and that you need to be more of a alpha male and keep the interest going.

Ok so some good advice is start hanging out with her around friends. stop doing the one on one for a little bit. Then when your with her up the Sexual Tension like crazy and make her want it. Cause she is starting to put you into the friend zone but your not in there yet. Setup a night where you and a lot of friends chill and drink and hang out. When she gets there ignore her for a little. Nothing too long. But then once she starts to get relaxed go over and say hey and like kiss her on her neck or the spot where the neck meets the collar bone. this is a very sexual area. and then go hang out some more. Then keep doing things to make her think about farking. Once she starts getting all over you return the favor a little bit. Pull her aside/Isolate her and make out a little and then she will get really farking horny. And when she isolates you so you guys fark, start making out and fooling around with foreplay and then return the message. Tell her you cant lead her on cause we have to be friends. this will basically tell her that your a prize and she has to work to keep you as friends with benefits or keep you at all.

Yeah what you basically want to do is get her to want you really bad like twice and return the message, but make sure you have the right tone and right energy so it doesnt make her mad. You just want her to rethink things and regret trying to say you guys were friends. Remember your a prize make sure to remind her that.

Thanks crobinson, that's great advice! I'll definitely do that.

I'm having a party this saturday, and she said she was going to another place and I was like: "Who said you were invited? " so I'm not that submissive!

Anyways, I'll definitely play the cold and hot game with her for a while Thanks mate.

Btw, could you give some examples of what kind of Sexual Tension would work best on her?

Is it stuff like touching her nipples subconsciously (aka. Gambler "My friends are right over there." Arm touching her nipple stuff) or more subtle like the eye contact or looking at her in a sexual way, i.e. left eye, right eye, mouth, left eye, right eye and so on.

Thanks in advance!

Best regards,

your welcome i really like coming on here to discuss pick up and help and get helped on my approaches.
But yeah that was good, tease her. Well good Sexual Tension is just making her want to have sex but cant. Kissing on the neck, good eye contact, stuff like you said (rubbing her nipples while you have a drink and talking with your hands), just anything that really gets her going and makes her want you but cant have you. Even just things that could be taken sexual. One i use during rock climbing is that when they get to the top they are supposed to say "take" so i take all the slack and i just say "well beautiful you can tell me to "take" anytime and ill do exactly what you say". im pretty sure theres a lot more but i ask for better ones and people never help me with that. But just try to get her really horny and wanting you but then dont give it to her at first or even at all. Try to make yourself seem like a prize and that she doesnt want to be friends with you, she wants more and thats why she still keeps kissing you and farking you

Thanks again crobinson. I think it's awesome you like to help guys like us who sometimes can understand the female psyche. Great stuff from your side on. I might need some more help later on, so it would be great to have you around!

In regards to my situation, do you think I should I should contact her or just wait for her to contact me? I'm referring to texting and so on. And if she texts me I should probably wait like a long time to respond to built suspense, right?

Thanks again mate,

Regards,

oh no doubt. yeah im on her everyday cause im trying to get better and im practicing everyday. right now im opening on a girl over the internet..you are the time im taking to keep her in suspense...haha. but yeah i wouldnt text her, she thinks that she has control to make the calls. This is kind of like when your friends with someone and want to be more, sever the ties and dont talk to them unless they talk to you, keep in short but show interest. if u dont show interest they will get mad a lot of the time. But yeah not texting her, sometimes taking a long time to reply and even forgetting to text until the next morning is always good. Make her feel like she cant just say your friends, its your decision as well and ur a prize.

Hey guys,


Just an update..

Yesterday I had a party with lots of girls and of course the HB I'm playing came by.. I actually told her that she wasn't invited (See previous post of mine) but she came anyway. I gave the other girls a warm welcome and just kind of cold approached her, not ignoring her - just not showing any interest.

A lot of things happened at the party and she was like calling my name all the time.. I kind of ignored it and just smiled and went out to do some other stuff, talk to other girls etc.

Then later when we sit and play cards she looks at me and asks me: "Is there something wrong?" and I say: "Something wrong? Look at this place, I'm enjoying myself. This is awesome." and later we had a waterfight again, where I just told her: "You just can't behave, can you?" and all that kind of crap. I used your tip crobinson and spiked up some Sexual Tension then pulled back and all that kind of crap. I think she really wants me again. This stuff works excellent on this kind of girl. Damn you guys are good..

Thanks for all your feedback. I'm positive I'm going the right direction.

Best regards,

Nice, not bad. A few things to change but overall you went about it correctly. You did good to not just hop onto stuff when she wanted to see you, or talk to you. IDK how you said some of the things, but when you said it on here it sounded a little cold and like no interest. You need to still show her that your interested but that she is still the girl that catches your attention but dont do that all the time cause its the same as just going over to her everytime she wants you. But some good things that will show her interest but also build Sexual Tension is when your talking to another girl and she is looking over or something, just take a smile and look over at her and then as you look away smile. This will show her that your talking to another girl but she is still on your mind. Do this but not a lot. Maybe once or twice. It was good to ignore her but also be a little more playful rather than cold. Like the card thing, i would have said something more to show that your having fun but something that also eases her. She is asking if something wrong with tonight cause of course your having fun, she thinks ur mad at her or something. That a good start but it cant stay like that. Next time she thinks that and asks just say something like " something wrong, haha no i am havinga great time and its awesome that you stopped by tonight". its not clingy or needy but its also shows ur interest in here. Cool so good start with ignoring her and showing her that your a prize and that she has to work for you and if not some other hot girl with get you. Keep that up, but dont just give into her when she understands, make sure she understands so after she starts being all over you, do that like 2 more times and then it should be good. Just do it whenever needed. always make sure when you do something to show her your a prize, talk to other women, dont be all touchy feely. Just talk to them and try to get them to show good body language. she will notice that and get jealous. She will notice that the girls are doing things cause they like you, smiling, laughing, leaning forward, mirroring you..etc.v

good job bro, i hope you keep it up, if you need more help or just comments just put it up here. i will always comment on something that needs advice

Thanks crobinson. I think I maybe overdid the cold part, but I think it worked well.. and she still knows I'm interested due to the fact that we had a water fight for like half an hour where she ran after me and we hugged and kissed on the lawn.. Playful teasing so I think I'm going the right direction as said. I just don't know whether or not I should text her now. My last text was:

Me: "Oh boy.. I owe you so much water! It's crazy!"
HB: "Haha, that's so NOT true! I owe you!!"

I don't know whether or not I should text her or just wait for her to reintinitiate a conversation.

I'm also wondering whether or not I should hang out with her alone now, or should I only be around her with her friends around? Just thinking loud her. Anyways, thanks a lot crobinson. You're a lot of help!

Regards,

wow she actually caught on quick. Yeah she is already seeing you as a prize. Try and reply something to be clever and see what she thinks. maybe something like "now how can you possibly owe me after we have used like 2000 gallons of water?" I think you thinking about it too much. And you could hang out one on one but i would probably bring up something about being friends. Like hang out and when making out just pull away and say " we cant do this, you wanted to be friends. I cant lead you on"

"I'm having a party this saturday, and she said she was going to another place and I was like: "Who said you were invited?"

^ JUST GOLDEN.

Sounds like you are coming along quite well.