Too Nice

04-22-2010, 09:55 PM

i always end up in the friendzone because i'm too nice. I've tried being a jerk but its just not me. Any help is appreciated

PS any texting tips to get her to where she texts me first

04-22-2010, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by coreyt

i always end up in the friendzone because i'm too nice. I've tried being a jerk but its just not me. Any help is appreciated

PS any texting tips to get her to where she texts me first

The best way to learn is through ppl's field reports. Those things give you pointers of what can happen. That's what I did when I first started. You can see where ppl made mistakes and how you can avoid it.

You can also get some material such as mystery method (a good starter's guide) and ebooks from other PUAs like Style and I'd like to recommend Gambler (aka Richard). The materials in these 3 books have helped me a lot. I'm currently listening to David D Angelo's tapes and I think it's pretty good too.

I used to think you have to be a jerk to be good with women but that's not true. You can be nice and have them like you. You just have to know the method and these guys can give you some tips on what you can do.

Best texting material? Go look around the forum. Bill and others have posted topics on text game.

prjav · 04-23-2010, 01:07 AM

dont be nice then, the nicer you the farther you get from getting that pussy plain and simple.

Girls love Bad Boys, be a bad boy, do extreme sports, hang with beautyful women whenever you can. BE the man, the alpha male. Being cocky is simple and its a great tool when used correctly. be funny, mess with her. you can be nice and still mess with her and make her laugh.

crobinson1 · 04-23-2010, 03:04 AM

ok this is where lots of discussion will come in, being nice and being a pussy are too things. Opening the door, complimenting her on her looks and helping out of the way of something are nice. Riding her d1ck, doing too much sh1t, being TOO proper are all signs of being a pussy. Trust me i cant do the asshole thing either, i am a nice guy but i also have the inner confidence and just try to give off that vibe of alpha male. You dont have to be a jerk, you just have to not ride their d1ck. Tease them whenever you can but dont make it harsh. When you make it harsh it makes you an asshole and they dont really want that. But just playfully teasing them is good.

I also agree, the forum helps cause you can analyze other guys and then try to not make the same mistake and see if it works or not. Trust me you can be nice and still Get Girls. You just need to be a nice guy who is an alpha male. Like tonight, most people would think that what im doing is a d1ck move but its really not. I have been casually talking to this girl. I wasnt even trying to get with her. Today she asks me for my opinion on something and i answer. she was asking whether or not it is messed up to love your boyfriend but want to break up with him cause he isnt giving you everything you need and you want someone else. I did my whole thing and then she put, well cause i love my boyfriend and all dont get me wrong but i find myself wanting to date other guys like you and some other dude. I put why is that. And we started talking about stuff and i am actually getting her so turned on that we sent sexual texts all day and that she wants to meet on saturday and fark. She has a boyfriend but she got to think about it and still wants to so since she is making the decision that she wants to cheat ill fark her as well. she made the decision and i want to fark her so im not against it.

You can be nice but sometimes just let go and ask yourself am i being nice or just a pussy. I could have said no i appreciate your relationship but who am i to judge whats best for her. If she wants it and thought about it and made an informed decsion then im going to do wants she wants cause i want it as well.

05-03-2010, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by crobinson1

ok this is where lots of discussion will come in, being nice and being a p*ssy are too things. Opening the door, complimenting her on her looks and helping out of the way of something are nice. Riding her d1ck, doing too much Sh1t, being TOO proper are all signs of being a p*ssy. Trust me i cant do the asshole thing either, i am a nice guy but i also have the inner confidence and just try to give off that vibe of alpha male. You dont have to be a jerk, you just have to not ride their d1ck. Tease them whenever you can but dont make it harsh. When you make it harsh it makes you an asshole and they dont really want that. But just playfully teasing them is good.

I also agree, the forum helps cause you can analyze other guys and then try to not make the same mistake and see if it works or not. Trust me you can be nice and still Get Girls. You just need to be a nice guy who is an alpha male. Like tonight, most people would think that what im doing is a d1ck move but its really not. I have been casually talking to this girl. I wasnt even trying to get with her. Today she asks me for my opinion on something and i answer. she was asking whether or not it is messed up to love your boyfriend but want to break up with him cause he isnt giving you everything you need and you want someone else. I did my whole thing and then she put, well cause i love my boyfriend and all dont get me wrong but i find myself wanting to date other guys like you and some other dude. I put why is that. And we started talking about stuff and i am actually getting her so turned on that we sent sexual texts all day and that she wants to meet on saturday and fark. She has a boyfriend but she got to think about it and still wants to so since she is making the decision that she wants to cheat ill fark her as well. she made the decision and i want to fark her so im not against it.

You can be nice but sometimes just let go and ask yourself am i being nice or just a p*ssy. I could have said no i appreciate your relationship but who am i to judge whats best for her. If she wants it and thought about it and made an informed decsion then im going to do wants she wants cause i want it as well.

Tease her. A lot. Don't forget to be playful and cocky, or else she'll think you're a wuss who is building his own self-confidence by teasing(often seeing as manipulating and humiliating by the women).

And yes, they want to be manipulated.
They just hate to be aware of it.

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