2 outings in a week or space them further apart?

Hey,

I was wondering whether I should meet up with a girl twice a week?

I asked whether she'd like to hang out this week(she said fine) and she asked whether I'd like to join another function that she is organizing...I've heard about the 7 hour rule from Mystery and I think it means that in order for someone to like you, you would need 7 hours...or is it about f-closing?

Or should I decline her invite, so as to show to her that I am not someone that is always there...that I am a valuable, busy person that can't always come at her beck and call...That is my take what do you guys think?

Thanks..

tell her you will come if you can and then show up. make sure to false time constraint and then try to set up an Instant Date, when you go to this you dont want to follow her around, so make sure you dont get pulled into a trap like that (ask her what exactly it is).

It's basically a baking class...I shall ask the details and show up....how to set up a false time constraint and set up an Instant Date....I was thinking of sticking around her and having some fun during the bakery class or should I ignore her and go to her friends while being cheerful...?

Thanks

make sure you tell her you arent sure if you can show up but if you can you will.

false time constraint:
When you get there act like you don't have a lot of time (even though in truth you do). In this situation the false time constraint will make her want to impress you for the "small" time you have with her.

Now for sticking around her or hanging out with her friends...
If i were you all i would do is get yourself genuinely interested on the seminar, don't try to make her focus her attention on you, it's very likely that she will try to focus a lot of attention on you, especially if you don't act like you need it.
So:
Dont follow her around.
Get yourself interested in the seminar
Start talking to her friends (hell try to get them attracted to you)
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if you do those things then she will try to get your attention by flirting with you, this is where you do something that crob pointed out in another thread, flirt back, but then after a bit turn back to her friends and continue the conversation.

If you have any more questions go ahead and post them or message me, I'm on here at least twice a day so I'll help you whenever.

I will throw my 2 cents in. First off, the venue. A baking class? Really? What do I look like? Betty farkin Crocker? Great, a chance to wear my new apron. Play with her (cocky & funny).

Now don't get me wrong, I am an amateur chef & cooking is a great skill & can make for a great day 2 or 3. Invite her over & have dinner going when she arrives then invite her to assist you with finishing while enjoying a cocktail or 2 or 5, lol.

Instant points for cooking if you can do it well. I recommend at least a dish or 2 that you do well & never attempt a dish for the first time for a date. Dress rehearsals are key to make sure you can pull it off. There are many simple yet impressive dishes that require little skill. Sorry, I digress, lol

Secondly, I would say that you might appear to available. As tough as it might be to fight the urge, you have to deny yourself. Let her think to herself, what is he doing that is better than spending time with me. Make her work for it.