Unsolved Questions

Rethinking about some of the scenarios and questions I've encountered in the past. What would've been a better way to deal with them?

1) What if I'm talking to a guy and then that guy talks about some of his accomplishments and suddenly the girl that I don't know (haven't been introduced to) talks in and asks about his accomplishment all of a sudden...Is this an ioi to him or does she want me to introduce myself to her. I suspect the former

2) What if she asks if I'm a virgin?

what do I answer. Yes, and she might ask how many if I say many then she'll think I'm a manwhore. None and she might think I'm incompetent or weak...

3) What if she asks what's your sexual fantasy?

A chick that asked me this told me that her fantasy was to be wearing a nurse's dress during intercourse. I simply said mine's was the same, just to gain soem commonalities...righ t or wrong?

4) What if say she is from another country and would like to go back home and was telling me that she'd not like to stay in this country. Hinting that in order to . continue the relationship would not be possible because she'd have to leave/What should I say? Oh, I'm staying here...saying I'll go with you anywhere you choose to go might be a turnoff.

5) What if she says me how to say "you're beautiful" in another language then when i say it, she goes "thank you". I'm like WTF I'm not talking about you I'm just teaching you the term, should I retort and say that was pathetic or stay silent. It seems that she's trying to disqualify me here by making me say something that all the afc's say...even though I'm not referring to her and just teaching her another language after she asks.

6) What if after I play the questions game and ask "Would you like to kiss me", she says "Kiss now" or "Forever"? I got asked this once, and these were the options she provided, which i thought was weird and she meant by forever as in marriage... I chose "Kiss now" as "forever" would be weird cause I'm 20 and she's 21, I don't want to say that I'll marry you when the probability is there but minimal. How would you answer this?

6) Do you have anything to confess? i.e., she's insinuating that I like her and would like to let her know.

I just said that no I have nothing to confess. Because I know telling a girl you like her is a big mistake Thinking back, it might have been better to ask, either "Do you?" or "Yes, I do. Do you?"

7) A girl told me that her ex wanted to f close her once yet she didn't want to until after marriage. They were in a LTR...4 years...he asked her whether she would like to fark.. She told him that if you want that then you'd have to wait after marriage. He replied that he shall wait until after marriage...they were in late teens then...Then she said that he should go find someone else b/c she wanted him to get his desire fulfilled, they broke up...how should he have replied??

Thanks for reading this. Any help would be appreciated.

Well, so
Point 1, It might be the former, she might be showing interest, unless she looks at you while she says that. Cause in case she looks at you with an "Im bored look" then she is bored with all that Sh1t of the accomplishments of ur friend, or whoever it might be.
Point 2: Play with her, don let her do the QUESTIONING all the time, you are BETTER than her and as such she does not have "the right" to ask you, at least u pretend so. But if you have to answer then, anwer playfully, like, "Can u distinguish a guy who is a virgin from the one who is not, without telling you" (KEEP urself cool in this one, dont get red, dont look away, all these are signs that you are trying to hard) or u can say "Well that's find it out..." in a playful way.

Point 3: Tell her what ur sexual fantasy is, that's all. Don't copy her, copying her is a sign of weakness, let it be her the one copying you. Mine, for instance, is sexual intercourse with a big titted young girl somewhere in the woods, where people pass by occasionally. Ok it might be sick, but that is my fantasy. And a lot of girls are turned on if you take the lead... this means if u are the one asking her questions, and especially if you playfully tease her by disagreeing with her, of course not in everything she says, but keep your EGO, u are strong and u have some "qualities selected in ur mind" which girls have to fulfill.

4. Well, in the place u are there are plenty of girls, I bet on this. You'll meet another girl. All you can say is, "we'll keep in touch via e-mail" or "Call me now and then when u can" (Again be the one making her do more for you than you do for her).

5. Well, in this one, u have made the mistake for not telling her, U MADE HER ASK U TO TELL HER... all u can do is be playful, keep eye contact (depending on the place and moment) and ask it another way round...what do i deserve for telling u are beautiful, give her a hint that now its her time to give you a kiss.

6. Dont say it, show it to her, saying "I love you" or "I like you" might be a turnoff too, instead, if u've been seeing her for a while (like 2-3 times) or (2-3 times per week) then kiss her and after the kiss tell her, this is what I had to tell you... and still dont say a word, you'll ruin it.

7. Are u wanting to have sex with her, too, right now... or are you a kind of guys who can wait until marriage, if you are the later, then tell her, hopefully not all boys are jerks like him , take your time honey (or whatever u call her), we'll have a life-time to do that...


I don't know how much I helped you, hopefully I did.
Keep it up...
Vikkz

2. No but im extremely picky and cautious. this should take her doubts of you being clean away and maybe make her believe that she has to earn sex with you and be sort of special to be with you.

3. something either cheeky and romantic and interesting rather than something freaky. DONT WORK ON COMMONALITIES thats what every chump does.

i would say, a log cabin with a fireplace in a cold rainy night, only heat would be the fire and us and maybe a blanket. to the point that we have to keep going all night to stay hot. all the way into the next day. For some reason the girls ive been with cant keep up with me. BOOM shes farked, MEGA BOOM its my true story dont farking steal it, invent something adventurous and romatic if you dont have a true fantasy like that one. it implies that you are a sex machine and she has to be good to be with you. it makes her want to qualify herself to you.

4. easy. i would say: its a shame you want to go back if its not a family reason. Onn the other hand this country has amazing adventures and you feel like that because you havent been to one. I will take you out sometime and after that ill ask you the same question again.

5. say something else in that language she doesnt now. when she ask what it means, you tell her she has to earn it for you to tell her what it means. make it a sexy, thing, a mystery. girls love this kind of things.

6. you got 6 two times there.

6.1 hummmm let me think this for a little while. go for it. either way shes saying yes to the kiss.

6.2 the other question you talked of was better. use a body language speech. i would go by, you have something to confess to me you body language tells me that you want bla bla bla bla bla.

7. words are shit here. working you GF to the point that she cant take it would be the way to get her laid. shes setting a boundary you have to use that against her, when she gets horny shove it in her face and talk about how its prohibited and she cant. she will open those legs so spread she will be doing splits in bed waiting for him

1. She is qualifying herself as taken. So disqualify yourself with a neg and continue your conversation with the guy. Also later try to find out how they know each other.

2. If you are and you tell her your not and then you hook up she is gonna know your not telling her the truth. If you are, hell use it to your advantage. When the conversation turns sexual play it like she is trying to pick you up and slow her down. It will push her away but it will make her want to chase you more. If your not tell her you are with a big smile on your face letting her know your not and play it the same way.

3. If she asks your sexual fantasy and yall just met then its foolsmate and it doesn’t matter what you say cause your in anyways. Just don’t screw it up. If she is willing to tell you her then be honest and tell her yours. Nothing wrong with that. Unless your into necrophilia or something crazy like that.

4. If she tells you when she is leaving she is placing a time constraint. Don’t take this as a threat. She is probly telling you this so you can pick up your game and speed it up. Take it as a ioi and run with it. Also she is qualifying and telling you what she is looking for. IN the words of style: I don’t want 1 night stands, I want 10 night stands.

5. Use the beauty is common line. Tell her that Beauty is common but what really matters is a good out look, positive energy, and well centered woman. Make her work to prove she has those things.

6. Shes qualifying again. Tell her it depends on how good of a kisser she is and then kiss her. After you kiss her tease her and tell her youll marry her. Later tell her yall are getting a divorce when yall are joking around about something. Then when you call her bridge the time gap by saying when she picks up her I talked to the lawyer and the divorce papers are in the mail. Refer back to it and remind her of the kiss and the night.

7. Tell her yes then tell her something stupid like you absolutely love peanutbutter. But do it in a serious kind of like making a confession kind of way. Make her laugh and move on.

8. Tell her not all guys are so shallow and work backwards from there. Wash rinse repeat LRM is going to be huge on her. If yoiur trying to fclose her its not likely to happen unless your just amazing at this stuff. Just remember that part of being a PUA is knowing when to say no.

__________________
Official PUA Forums VIP Member

Vikkz, prjav, and tcomea2 thanks. Your comments were insightful.

thanks.