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Originally Posted by prjav im an asshole when it comes to this things. I dont take second class behavior from anyone. If you are not seeing her again and you dont run the chance of her cockblocking you, you can go far and make her into a better person by giving her some of her own medicine. i would tell her a lie, like i got a raise meet me at x(fanciest rest around) for some lobster, make her go there all dressed up and let her sit there and feel the shame of being stood up. i would later tell her to learn from that experience and feel what i felt. i guarantee she will not make plans when she cant meet em ever again.
if you run the chance of bumping into her, then go the message way. yours seems too soft, be a little more aggressive, she has to feel bad for what she did. your message is like a pat on her hand. Dont be extreme or you will blow a lot of sets because of it. Remember no matter how hot this girl is, she doesnt deserve you and you should forget about her. shes showing her negative side already no need to investigate any further. |
here is the problem, i would totally do that and tell her to meet me at X but I know she just wont go there. At first when the attraction was still there, and i wanted to go on a date with her, i offered coming picking her up and go and she always agreed but we never ended up going cuz she bailed and once i bailed cuz i felt like she would if i didnt. the whole time i know her we went for lunch after class once (which i paid for) and drove her home.
its 100% my fault. i just returned to be an
AFC once i felt like she is giving me
ioi's.
her beauty took over me and i was worried to loose her, once i lost her, i realized how bad i farked up and wanted a second chance just to see if i can still get her and if not whatever..
so i tried once more and here we are.. she bailed without even telling.
i think i should text her something that will show that im mad, and this is not acceptable but at the same time, she could take me out and treat me for dinner (and thats where i dont show up) but again, i highly doubt she will agree to that. she wont even come when i offer the treat :/