i mean once you have done it enough you have the thing kind of set out. Start off trying to introduce yourself while making them laugh, then moving into making them laugh more, negging them, false disqualfying them, qualfying them, doing a game or dhv story, going for the number closing the conversation at a high point and then making yourself memorable by making funny names in each others phones so when you text it reminds them of the positive feelings they had with you. But i mean other than the stuff i want to do, my mind usually goes blank right when i get to them and i open with whatever comes to my mind and everything else just comes naturally. i sometimes have a plan on what to say when i open but i usually dont stick to the plan. haha now if i want to do opinionated openers i usually have a couple on hand that i use. but directr and indirect is whatever witty thing i come up with on the spot. im not bad at this cause i have always been a jokester so im quick on my feet. haha but yeah as long as you have somewhat of a plan you should be good, just never use a lame Opener and think they are going to respond good, you need to think about what if they just make it awkward and say "uhhh yeah" or something. be ready with something witty to make them laugh. i usually have one that comes to mind like " wow i didnt think i was that hot but i have you tripping over your words." and i just say it with a smile and then introduce myself and extend my hand to them