Mystery vs Natural Game? "oh I have a pool party...." well, I don't have one.

the last paragragh got cut off again, I was jsut too pissed to go back and retype it. but thanks.

Some luck tonight BM. Don't come in tomorrow with a shotgun.

Got to love when that happens...

I will give that a shot. All I'm doing in friendly BS. Got to practice the friendly BS and get out of my head.

Sometimes I just wish I was into sports or something conventional . I don't know crap about any of them. Golf, Fishing, and Baseball are borrring. Tennis seems cool, never played. Athletics are not my strong suit.



Here is a question. I'm short, 5'3. At least in instant physical attraction that is a hindererence. I can, and have before, created and enhanced attraction with my personality. I will practice on anyone, but should I mainly focus on girls shorter than myself? It seems to be more of an issue with them than it does me.



I tried joking around with the teller at a bank today that had ALOT of bullet prof glass for a bank in the higher class neighborhood that I live in. I joked about the glass. She seemed to like it but It didn't go anywhere.

Another girl played ball with me HARD. We joked and flirted, eventually I said "Well, if your not careful your going to get it". And she's all "Well your just going to have to give it to me then". And I had NO idea where to go from there so interaction stopped. Tips?

Dude im only 5-6 and I run through it no problem. Don’t make excuses just learn to overcome it. Attraction and arousal come from other factors besides looks.

What do you do well, and what do you do for fun?

I can think of a hundred things to have said in that situation but she's never going to say it that way again, jsut know that was an open invite to have a good time, not necessarily close but, she sounds adventurous. Invite her to do something fun and soon. Also.. I've dated two tellers I met at the bank... think of taking your stuff in there like speed dating. They always try and sign me up for online I'm like "no, I like to see if you know how to do your job." ha. Also with girls you're chatting with at work you can always pull the sarcastic "Is there a manager I can talk to? (A) I'm getting terrible serivice." or "(B)The ice over here is giving me frostbite." always playful, not threatenting... they'll warm up. Or if they'e messing things up"(A)Do you work here?" or "(B) Are you new here?"

I Have a different way of getting girls... maybe I'll start a thread to elaborate... I'll jsut say, it's more like grooming them. No need to close the first try, every encounter is a score as long as you don't crash & burn.