Mystery vs Natural Game? "oh I have a pool party...." well, I don't have one.

So I'm spending the day studding game and will find something good to do Wed or Thurs.

I just watched The Pickup Artist Season 2 and noticed that Mystery vs Natural Game are quite different.

I am comfortable with qualification and being playful which seems to be what Mystery uses as well just maybe not broken down to the level of "Oh, this game is just demonstrating playfulness".

One of his closes is "Oh I'm having a pool party coming up you should come". Well, I almost never have parties coming up. My friends, one or two are good with women and have girls but the rest do not. Is it a dlv to associate with them? Can I ask a woman out without it being a party or event?

First off help your guy friends to get some girls.

Second, heck yeah you need to close a girl whatever way you can. Tell them is sushi night Wednesday and that they should join, that you are going to this trendy club that you can get them on the list for, whatever it is it doesn’t matter. The point of doing like Mystery does is to not sow neediness and show her that your going to have a good time if she comes or not.

OK. And when you close, how do you account for scheduling differences? What if she's genuinely not available wed and I don't even know?

I would LOVE to help my guy friends get some girls. However, I am not even getting any at the moment. I've asked out 6 so far and got 0. I've opened lots, and gotten numbers but am stuck right there. I don't even have any freaking female friends, but do have female acquaintancees that I hang out with every now and again as a group. Who knows how long that will last. Grrr. I'm just a wee bit frustrated.

Are you texting or calling when you get the numbers? And how long do you wait?

If she's not available due to her schedule, just breeze it off. Maybe call her another time, but also realize that there are over 3 billions women in the world. Don't develop one-itis.

It sounds like you have draper issues to deal with besides closing. How much work have you done on frame control and inner game?

tc, I'm not familiar with draper issues. Care to explain?

Deaper issues... Sorry typing on an iPhone ...

Ha, no worries. Thought it was some kind of PUA jargon I was unfamiliar with.

the deaper issues he's talking about is the "my guy friends dont Get Girls, I have some girl-aquantances but "who nows for how long", 6 opens, 0 closes, getting frustrated. girls smell that man!! What you need to do is have 100 or 600 opens, and the closes aren't important. get over rejection and get used to chatting girls, onceyour fear and pressure are off, you'll be more natural talking to girls. Girls at bars/ clubs/ 'meeting places' have a shield and are expecting advances and guys to talk to them, you need to work on day game and hit on unsuspecting girls, schedule a day, or a week, or a day every week that you sarge on girls ALL DAY. Go places with LOTS of girls and talk to them all. Places where girls are alone or in pairs and not busy or are stuck someplace would be a good place to start. Bus stops, coffee shops, book stores, a couple of my favorite are the university (I dont even study there... but where my backpack anyways ), bookstores and walking around downtown, bus stops, little shops, and malls are a good palce to shop girls. Approach them and use observation openers like "man,global corporate starbucks coffeesucks, too bad their on the way I'm going." or "too bad I have stock in them and feel like I have to support my cause." Or "Is this song (playing) by so in so? it sounds like.." or anythign to get them talking. Don't be scared to plop down at their table, or on the bench but look disinterested like at your book your carrying, or watch, or down the road or under the table or generally distracted... I like to search my pockets like i'm digging for soemthing and if they ask what say "oh nothing" and then strike up, then start looking again or around o nthe floor. Check in your shoes or under the table or anything, but don't let that be the focus but sometimes they'll start looking around too. But don't tell her what you're looking for, jsut say "oh nothing.. do they have that drizzly flaky nouggan pastry thing here?" "do they have those little shots for your drinks?" be serious though.. she'll try to help.
Might help to take a friend for confidence that splits off when you go to strike up a chick and in 1 minute (or 30 seconds,) after he's been window shopping or acting genuinly interested in something else and not yall, e'll come over and you can introduce them even if you don't hav her name yet...
Lots of little non-chalant "just here because I belong" things to do without the preassure of appearing like a pick up. you need confidence man. If you're not a 10 in your mind you need to workout and work on it mentally. The more confident you are in you, the more you love you, the more she'll know that.

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sarge. you'll get better at being YOU and talking to girls being YOU and it will feel and BE more natural to you. Find one of your friends who wants girls to and wing each other. study together, you'll get better.

Your assignment, Grasshopper, is a full day of sarging in the next week. The university is a great place, better than the mall. Bookstore is a prettygood place but usually only has an hr of good sarging before it looks liek you're circling and stalking girls

Good post