Lock-in Help.

Two girls are sitting on a bench like chair at the bar.
-Indirect open.
(Do you think ke$ha is hot...works lol)

-TC
-Disqualifier.

HERES where i would like some help.

It looks like im gaming them, so what i did was:

Hey I learnt this cool magic trick,
You hafto get up tho.
-She gets up-
-Take her seat-

What do you think?

Looks pretty manipulative, unless you actually do a trick or something from the seat.

What I see you doing here is taking value and giving nothing in return.

Yeah I have to agree with bill here, this just seems like a jerk thing to do. Now if you do that and then give her a false time constraint, and then do the trick or reward her in some sort of way that’s classic MM3. At least reward her action there with some attention.

That would work but just depends if it congruent with the rest of your game.

I'm gonna look past the lock-in tactic you tried and actually talk about 'locking yourself in.'

You already know the purpose of 'locking in' is to make sure you're in a position that prevents losing your girls in any way. Some methods use props, others use tactics.

I've realised a good way to lock yourself in is to actually LEAD.

Women love leaders, that's for certain. Leading these girls are small little commitments by them that can eventually turn into bigger commitments down the road (like...say...sex?).

Example in your situation:
(good song comes on) "Holy sh1t, this is an awesome song." hold out your hand and nod toward the dance floor "come on, let's dance"

if successful, you're leading them, therefore it's certain you're not going anywhere.

thats a good thought but i would stay away from the dance floor. Its a double edged sword!

but you are right women love leaders. So lead them to a quiet place where you can work on them without having to yell over the band!