FU(%^ HB9 threw me into LJBF zone ??

this sh1t may end up being very long but ill try to shorten it as much as necesary.

HB9 with big beautyful eyes. Met her using FB. Got #, met her like a week or so ago but we didnt get to talk much. since then ive stepped up my game.

I got Comfort with her to the next level, too much i would say. She has talked to me about her personal problems and ive done so too. Not as much as her. Ive talked about my dates with her to let her know about me being surrounded by lots of beautiful women.

I always call her nicknames. she hasnt said anything about it so i believe she likes it. i sometimes call her by my love, baby and things like that. she has done it to me like 2 times.

im always messing with her. i have never told her shes beautiful. nothing physical to the point that she may think i dont like her. She put up a new profile pic and i said nothing. so she asked me about it and i said, its cool, you look different with a cap.

i mess with her a lot. sometimes i call her: hey ugly how are you? thinks like that. I also used roleplaying with her. like hey im going to shower, stop peeping. also used the: hey you were looking at me like a piece of meat...

we were talking this week and she tells me that shes staying over here in her dorm. i told her i was going to be out of town and she said like: uhhh and was like a little sad for a few minutes. maybe she had something in her mind.

I think ive played this game almost to perfection. I know theres another guy and that he is ahead of me. Theyve been dating already(couple dates as far as i know). So i open up today with: hey sugar buns, whats up?

she says: he called me, ill tell you later.

i said: ok , and i kept talking about my exam and sh1t. Avoided the topic altogether.

Am i in the farking LJBF stage or is this salvageable? what should be my next step?

a friend tells me this could be a chance to get even closer and work my game from the inside. Im just farking mad that after playing this well its not going the way i want. One thing i should do is try to get a couple dates with her. sigh... what do you guys think?

You gotta get her on a few dates, that should have happened a few days ago really... You also might need to step up your Sexual Tension.

You should have actually started flirting sooner, that stuff may build Sexual Tension right when you meet someone but it won't do sh1t after like 2 days.

My mentor once told me that for the women you actually like, be friendly, but DON'T be a friend.

If she's not attracted to you in that way, don't waste any more time and energy than you have to. Use that time to improve your skillsets and more importantly your lifestyle. Another HB9 will come around, or maybe she will.

But, if you stay in that friend zone, and let her have that 'friend zone access'...meaning letting her call you and waste your time about girl BS, then you're losing time and losing value.

set her aside and keep moving foward. Not easy, but helpful in the long run.

ive been going for this girl for a while weve grown very close. so today it went like this:

i created a convo about a girl that wants me to F her but she has a bf(true story). a beautiful girl im meeting. i throw alittle rant towards women, i end by telling her i will cut that girl off of my life(maybe a lie, if i can ill fark her shes HOT) cause i dont want to get a std.

i start to talk about sex and tell her how passionate sex is amazing but with feelings involved its even better. she tells she cant tell me much cause she is not experienced.

I sent her a message today so we could eat lunch together and it was not posible since she was off the city(dorm) and into his parents. She wanted me to go to a county fair thats going to be on her town. Its farking far from here though and im not sure i may be able to go. She wants to give me a tour i asked for a couple weeks ago and she wants to hang out with me. Also told me that we would eat lunch together as soon as shes in town again.

i told her about being mad about that girl and started a roleplaying game with her where she is my FB GF. she tells me a curseword in a joking manner and tells me that she treats all his BF like that. I tell her im not just any other BF and that she would treat me like her king. In exchange shes my princess. we start to joke about that a lot and she completely goes for it. It was farking amazing. I loved it and it was clear she did too. it was a blast and i really find that girl to be amazing minus a couple small things.


I want fun and funny ideas to keep the playfull gf/bf thing going!!!!

BTW i dont have oneitis, im still going out and im working on 2 more girls.

About the other dude she's dating.. Jusk ask her how he is doing on his dates!
Don't avoid the topic but she'll give besides some positive sh1t about him, also negative sh1t about him. Example; 'Yeah he's really cool but he's just too much for me, he calls me too much blablabla'.. And then say: Yeah I really feel sorry for guys who are obsessive (makes her think he's obsessive. OBSESSIVE equals CREEPY)

And.. because you like this hb so much (i noticed) you are doing AFC sh1t. you're creating way too much Comfort than is good for you and her.
The only time for real comfort is after sex, before.. create just enough to get to close her!
So stop having all that Fluff talk and let her know you are GETTING attracted!
Say sh1t like;

When I just got to know you, i thought you were arrogant/smartass/lazy/[other negative sh1t about her]
But now I know ya a bit better I'm getting to see a really sweet girl.

Step into seduction mode man!

Dont ever bring up the other dude. he is dead to you. it shows insecurity and puts you not just in friend-zone, but in girlfriend-zone!! she'll be callign to cry to you about all sorts of sit-to-piss-sh!t. ball up playa. Push Pull, be a prick, do NOT DRIVE MILES to go to the Fair and jumpthrough HER HOOP and pay for food and drinks and rides and be the shoulder to cry on. Tell that piece you're going out with one of your chickfriends (This is intentionally not saying girlfriend, but makes her wonder about your use of terminology.. also make it plural like : "ONE of my chickfriendS" ) and that she should just call when she's back in town and has 25 mins free. Thats also a line pioneered by me meaning "Maybe we'll just F" or " I don't have much time, nor am I promising much to you" or "Maybe we'll jsut get coffee" ... the girl can take it anyway you like and depending on her response you can tease/ neg/ or take her up on a romp.

Don't be a chump. you're depressing me over here!!

The other dude, that's all about inner game.
If you care, then don't discuss it. If you don't care at all, then take a loop with him, but everybody has it's own style of doing things..
And just step up into seduction mode, because you are balancing at the edge of the friendszone