Riddle me this - I still cant engage in flerty convo, but I can teach salsa in day.

Think less. Act more. If you're afraid you have nothing to talk about or doubt your own worth, you're finished. I'm still learning, but I started to get much stronger reactions and results from women when I started telling myself "I'm the prize, not her. Act accordingly." I think amino is right. Get you inner game together, and success (or at least improvement) will flow from that.

You know what... I think you guys are right..

Inner Game issue. When I'm at work I can 'hide' behind the counter and guise that I'm working. I can teach salsa because it's planned and something I know I can do.

So much of convo is stories, and I don't have many. I can just talk about nothing with proper inner game? Talk about imaginary elephants having sex on the beach while in greace... sh1t like that.

well I think elephant sex would be a lil much, unless ur a zoologists studying mating behaviors then its ur life passion and she would take an interest! But yes with solid inner game u become comfortable with random, fun, unscripted and unique conversations.

Well, I got a date with her mid this week. Lets see how it goes!!

Who is the phone game person?

all I did was i called her up, asked her if I she knew who I was and set the time for going out for yogert. There is a park next door to the yogert shop. That "date" may suck, but it's what I'm doing and all I could think of at the moment.

Dude if you think it's gonna suck guess what! It's going to suck!
Figure out a way to make it exciting.

Btw crob is really solid on phone/text game.