Status Update. Help appreciated

So far everything is pretty good since the time that I started learning how to game a girl. I've approached a lot more girls than I would've without the openers techniques. I would be a typical guy that never would approach any girl in college. That itself is awesome. Its different and I feel powerful because it gives me options.

TO make a long story short. I get phone numbers. I find that If I say lets hang out somewhere and she says yea its on, they don't Flake, but that is usually after 15 minutes of talking.
On the other hand what I'm doing for the rest is I say put your phone number in my phone we should talk later...

The last five phone numbers I got I sent them a text what are you doing this weekend, some I sent what are you doing besides partying, another I sent what are you doing this weekend? Let me guess your taking knitting classes to make me a shirt how sweet.

Zero replied. And these are girls that I just met and they didn't even have me on the phone-book.
Don't get me wrong I already had 3 successes but its obvious that I'm doing something wrong. I don't even feel so natural talking to them at the beginning. This one girl we did make great connection.

I want to be more direct now. I think indirect is taking too much time and I'm in college so I don't think I have to be all that different.

"What I want to say Is hey I thought you were cute lets hang out sometime"

IS that recommendable?

Personally, and after reading some stuff published on here, I don't recommend giving a compliment like "you're cute" and then especially following it up with a request to "meet". It sounds like you are using the compliment to get her to do something that you want from her... which is a sign of neediness.

I think you have, what we Daniel Negranu calls in poker, a bad case of trying to outsmart yourself.

Chat them up, get their phone number and then ignore them for 3 days... then call and ask them for a coffee on a weekday night or weekend afternoon. Keep your weekends free, both to give them the idea you are busy and to free up those prime times to go clubbing and getting more numbers.

I've tried doing that and girls think its strange to just go out for coffee with someone they've just met.

Guys I really think that girls are that intimidated by me or at least that is what someone said that girls might of been by me here at the forum.

I've covered this before in another account. I've flirted with a 26 year old woman with me, at 17 a 21 one year old asked me out to the movies, girls flirt with me even though the have boyfriends, this last girl in school doesn't even give me eye contact but she does with everyone else.


The last girl I kissed it went like this. At the book store I took her pulse and I said you must be attracted to me. I had an idea that she was attracted to me since her pupils were very dilated and she was giving me heavy eye contact. Then she said omg you're right, and her friend(it was a guy) said wow that's crazy.

We left to my car. In the parking lot I asked her would you like to kiss me. She said here? I drove her off to her place. Then I said kiss goodbye. She said are you serious? I said yeah. I kissed her. Then I said b+ with some room for improvement. She said I'm an expierned kisser, its just that.

I said common I'm not that intimidating. She said just a little bit with a cute shy quite voice.
I said another kiss. I kissed her and that was the end of the night

I sent her a text to hang out to the mall on sat. She said she had a little family party. Then she said that we should hang out sometime later. 2 days later I sent a text saying whats up my little vampire. Its a nickname I gave her since she said playfully she was a vampire since she was giving me so much eye contact.

nothing

Guys what is going on
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I just don't know how to create that Comfort?
Like do I keep on teasing them? Wouldn't that just intimidate them even more, and make me seem like a douchbag?