Dealing with Last Minute Objections: Mirror Technique

I'm going to let you guys in on a technique I have developed which makes dealing with last minute objections, trivial to non-existent. As far as I know, I am to the first to invent this, and I call it the mirror technique.

Definition: Last minute objections, are the last minute excuses that women bring up right before sex. They generally are caused by one of the following:
1 and most common) She is worried about being judged by her friends, or she doesn't want to seem easy.

2) She is nervous about the actual sex act.

3) She just isn't sure she is ready.


Traditional way of dealing with last minute objections:
Traditionally you just agree with her that you, "Shouldn't be doing this." and keep going. If she starts physically objecting (either by stiffening and appearing nervous, or actually pushing you away), you back off and slowly work up to where you were before.

The traditional methods are still useful in my technique, but the goal is to reduce the need and make the objections token at best.

Last minute objections can be very maddening because one false step can often lead to missing out on closing the deal or many hours of trying to work through the woman's hang-ups.

Okay, now we get to the good part, the technique:

First, if the chick is really horny and comfortable with her body, don't use this technique. She isn't going to give you any problems and there is no need. However, if you aren't sure, or you think she might give you real objections (ones that can't just be dismissed), then read on.

Step 1 Pre-empt her:
As soon as you start physically warming up (heavy kissing, petting), or when there is the mutual understanding that you are headed that way, and she seems nervous, tell her, "I just want you to know that I want to take it slow, and so we can't take it past pg-13)."

Understand the step:
First, this well help remove her fears. She won't have to be nervous or worried about you trying to force yourself on her because you have told her that YOU don't want to go any farther. This will automatically increase your chances of getting sexual, especially if she is nervous, or she isn't sure she wants to have sex with you. She also won't be worried so much about holding back on you because she thinks you are going to stop when things get too intense. Finally, any woman who is really in to you, will be down for pg-13 fun. It's a lot of fun to make out and get some petting going, and it isn't that threatening.

Step 2 Frame the Excuse:
At this point things should be getting pretty hot and heavy. You are fully engaged up to the pg-13 level and you are both having fun. Now you need to repeatedly tell her two things:
a) that she is so naughty.
b) that she is so sexy that you can't hardly control yourself.
While doing this, make sure to lightly run your hands over her back and touch her in sensual ways, but not in area's where she might reject you.

Understand the step:
The touch is to get her turned on and wanting you sexually.
The words do a couple of things. They create a reason for you breaking your previous statement of keeping it pg-13, and they subtly make her responsible for the progression. This is also got a couple of other sneaky ramifications. One, if she rejects you, she will be less sexy (because you subtly tied her sexiness to the reason you are wanting to go further), and two, you have subtly challenged her to drive you further because you have framed the interaction as though she is driving it.

Step 3 Go for it:
After step 2, when she is really passionate, start moving towards getting her naked and sex. Most of the time you won't even get an objection, but if you do, it will likely just be token, so you can easily dismiss it by agreeing with her that you shouldn't be doing it, but continuing on. After all, you told her earlier, that you shouldn't have sex, but she is just being so damn naughty and sexy!


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I came across this technique accidentally with a chick who told me that she wanted to fool around, but in no uncertain terms that we couldn't go very far. Within ten minutes of starting, we were having sex, and I didn't have any last minute objections after I tried the technique. I was so surprised that I thought it was a fluke, but I have used it repeatedly with great success. The reason I call it the mirror technique, is that you are basically mirroring the normal objection behavior of women, and thus controlling the behavior, so that they can't.

I hope this helps you guys.


PS:
I would never condone you using this information to try to force a woman into sex. The goal of this technique is to make sex more natural and easy for her to have fun and enjoy the sex guilt free. Use it responsibly.