Back to square one.

PUAs, lend me your ears, for I need a second opinion other than my own. (Nice entry huh?)

I will make this quick, a friend of mine dumped her wussy boyfriend about 2 months ago. I knew she was crazy about me since like forever, so I took the opportunity. 2 weeks ago we started dating, but secretly cause her ex-boyfriend happened to be my friend. (He was pretty easy to dispose of.)

However, she then started getting confused about us for two rather pathetic reasons if you ask me:
1) She wasn't ready for another relationship just yet. (I later found out that the wuss was so bad with girls that he permanently scarred her emotionally and psychologically.)
2) She kept insisting that she would mess things up.

So we downgraded our "relationship" into a "friends with benefits" thing, and we both promised that there would be no strings attached. It was extremely fun. Eventually we were caught red handed by wussy-boy (imagine a 20-year old crying in the middle of a crowded train). No biggy though, we laughed it off and continued with our thing.

But dammit she was still worried. We had a few arguments along the way over some over reactions on her part but thats to be expected. She was still worried that we would end up together, and the fact that everybody kept calling us a couple didn't help.

Afterwards she came up to me and I had to agree to end it all because she was too worried that we would end up together. So now we're just friends like we were before dating. Of course, I want that friends with benefits thing back, so I came to you guys to suggest a plan.

Some more info:
- Cocky/Funny thing is what I follow.
- I can't help but think that I'll end up in the friend zone eventually.
- How should I treat her now to keep the fire between us alive?
- Oh she also said that she does want to be in a relationship with me, just not yet cause she wants something serious with me. Oh yea. And because she just came out of a 3 year relationship with wussy boy of course.

I need a convincing way to tell her to continue our FwB thing. Much thanks.

well come on. im sure u have read it a couple times if not many if u have been on this forum. she is going to still feel things for you for the next little bit. so freeze her out. when she feels she is losing you because she is being dumb she will come back with a lot more intimacy and this time you need to have a hang out where its just you two NO MATTER WHAT. so then you will more than likely fark her if you escalate and then after a good lay just talk about it. make sure to play cocky funny to the tee and that as long as she doesnt over exxagerate things, that she wont really mess things up cause u dont give a sh1t!! haha

Unfortunatly I don't browse here often, but thanks for pointing it out. Well yea she is coming back a lot lately, asking whether I'm okay for nothing when I'm acting normal and other useless junk like that.

On the other hand she is making friends with a bunch of new guys. Trying to make me jealous I guess.

well no she could just be making guy friends. but more than likely those guys are doing the same thing u are doing. ORBITING HER VAGINA. so u need to man up and go for the prize already!! im sure u can get it done but yeah all these new guys are more than likely chasing her. get her to chase you and u earn the most value.

good luck

Freeze her out. Completely, hard freexe. Like don’t talk to her for a while. And do the same thing she is doing go meet some new chicks and make her jealous. You need her chasing you so you need to let her feel the void of you not with her. I would put money on it that if you acted like you were moving on she would come running back.

Address the cockblock. Your mutual friend is going to continue to get between you two. He is her former, validate his position as such with both of them. hook him up with another chick. Stop rubbing it in his face that he is a screwup. It lowers your value. She has an emotional attachment to him; an adverse attachment is still an attachement. In helping him get another woman, you will only validate your own higher value both among men and other women.

Her ex is not a problem, he actually threatened her to choose between him or me, she chose me lol. He hates my guts so technically we're not friends.

And I'm not worried at all about her guy friends. WHo am I to deny her her right to friendship afterall. Besides they're bloody ugly.

So I guess its freezing time since people are pointing in that direction. This should be fun I like messing with people's feelings.

Much thanks guys.

ur welcome. good luck