First date success - problems with 2nd date

Wussup yall, so I went on a first date with a girl and it went great, after the actual date, she invited me on an another Instant Date where we had lots of fun too.

Knowing she's really busy (and I believe she really is cause even her GFs post her wall with msg saying stuff like ''hey stop neglecting us!''), I didn't really exchange with her for about a week (small FB messages but nothing big). I had the next date I wanted to invite her to perfectly planned but then she suggested we should try this restaurant. So I said to myslef YESS, she's doing all the work, this gonna be easy!!! I wrote her a message saying something like awesome, I'll call you tomorrow (which I did but she didn't answer so I left a quick message asking her to call me back whan she gets a chance).

She DID call me today but my &*/$$* cell was /*?*(/ dead!!!! NOOO!!! She left me a long message saying stuff like hey sorry I was in a business meeting bla bla bla and I really want to go to that place with you but I'll be very busy for the upcoming weeks and so I think we should do this after my trip to bla bla bla...

The tricky thing here is that that won't happen till like a month!! So I'm like what!!!? I don't know how to adress this, should I still keep calling her sometimes to keep her attention? What should I say concerming the voicemail she left me!! What card should I play!? Should I be saying something like ''hey I'M the rockstart remember!?'' or just be cool with the MONTH delay!!?

Help Please!!

so many questions!!!! aaahhhhhhh :P

hey so first off lets just say this straight forward as possible without mixing words. STOP THINKING SO farkING MUCH. haha get out of ur head and start thinking straight. ok so first off she is into you pretty good so for a start you could try not talking/talking very little for like 2 weeks so she keeps thinking about you and trying to talk to you. cause to be honest its hard for the new PUA's to get attraction to stay at a peak for a month but if you feel like u could or even do silly dumb things to make her laugh and feel for you more go for it. girls love skype dates ps btw.

ok and next just dont worry about it. if you keep talking and she starts coming distant freeze her ass out until the day and then blow her mind with the date. not many girls have gone skydiving. u could always try that and make it a big surprise. blind fold and all. girls tend to love that stuff. just blind fold her and tell her you guys are on a top secret mission and she cant know what you doing until your about to do it. and then just say "one things for sure, i hope u have a good sense for adventure cause this is going to blow ur mind" haha

so just keep up the good work and stop thinking so much. i feel like u heart was racing at you wrote this thing bro. calm down. WOOOO SAWWW. HAHA

cheers!!

WOW already a response!! I just read Neil Strauss' PUA book and just registered on this site like an hour ago. When Style said stuff like these communities are great don't hesitate to ask for help there are thousands others like you that seek help and many others willing to help you, he wasn't BSing!!!

Thx man, I already feel more confident! Reason I sounded so hasty is because I haven't dated in a while and this girl is pretty awesome so I'm back in the game with the ''Hard'' settings on!! Now don't worry I won't develop one-itis with this girl, in fact I plan on sarging at will in the next month, and perhaps post new photos with some of my HB friends (perhaps doing blindfolded parachuting) so she can see what she'll be missing :P

Rock On

no doubt bro. well ill be one of the first to tell you. welcome to the community. this is going to be one hell of a ride for you and the women riding you . haha alright and yeah dont worry about it. your good.

and yeah there are many regulars on here that will help you a lot. me,tcomea, pjarv and a couple others are usually the most active. but you will get tons of help. dont be afraid to put up field reports of what happens and how stuff can improve. haha and sh1t i dont mean being blindfolded while parachuting. i mean just blindfolding them until you get to that place and then show them the crazy activity you guys are about to do. and yes always have a camera on hand cause its so much fun and a camera can help out your game big time

thanks for this site!

Use technology to your advantage. Just coz you guys aren't dating yet doesn't mean you can't post something on her wall or send her a sultry text. Maybe you should check out the online Dating Tips in this forum.