Being a Challenge

Aside from not being available all the time and missing some calls or pretending to check your calendar, how else can you be a challenge to a girl? C'mon guys, share techniques! This teen needs help!

Hopefully a lot of guys reply here. I could really use some help so I can maximize the holidays!

Develop a lifestyle where you really need to check your calendar, don't have time to call back, and are simply really not available too often. It sounds like you have too much free time. Since I have taken up some new "hobbies" and interests, from weight lifting to the electric guitar, to classic literature to volunteering this whole challenge part is rather effortless. You need to cultivate your life, it is unnatural and doesn't really work to inject false challenge into a relationship, unless it's text game or something.

In short, if you want to be a challenge, become a challenge - you can't really fake it.

i mean overall you can fact it at first if you guys are just talking but i agree with raven. if you want to be a challenge, become a challenge. get a busy lifestyle that has plenty of good open times where u could definitely have time to hang out but than have somewhat of a busy life.

now if you want to be a challenge other than seeing or talking there are plenty of little tricks you can do.

lets take an example of a girl im talking to at this very moment. this girl is the type of girl who had high school dialed in. trust me i know, i was in her high school. haha she was attractive, cheer leading captain (how stereotypical is that) plenty of boyfriends, parties and fun times. but to also infuse her personality type with her relationship type. she always feels like she gets exactly what she wants from everybody and all her boytoys/boyfriends. so right there, one thing to stand out is to be stubborn and make her earn her stuff. which is one thing us PUA's already do. but i take it all the way. one of my personal techniques that i do to tease them and make them chase me as a challenge is one of my kiss techniques. i tease them, they never know when im going to kiss them or not. and i mean this by when i go in for the kiss and they get ready to kiss, i mix a good amount of actually giving her the kiss with also denying and pulling away with a playful smile and sometimes a laugh. they act upset but they like it. ok her relationship type is one that i would say is a Investor/denier/idealist. she used to have plenty of boyfriends that she found as a good match, but she isnt a tester. she just had boyfriends cause she fell easily. she is a denier cause even though she had tons of boyfriends she lost her virginity not too long ago. i am 21 and she lost it at about 19 and graduated at 17. so she definitely waited. and she is a total idealistic female for her views in a relationship. so by knowing that she is basically a complete and hopeless romantic i did the proper strategy to make her feel comfortable while also mixing in things that would bring out of wild side. a wild side like farking me at a party in the bathroom making people go downstairs to use one. so everyone knew it was happening but i primed her so well that she didnt even notice that her LMR and Bitch Shield were gone. just for something funny. after we were done she went downstairs to her friends and got some paper towels cause her knees were bleeding a little from riding me so rough that her knees lost some skin. . so basically by knowing her type you can find some ways of becoming a challenge while still getting a good amount of sexual attention from her.

trust me, i have been doing that kiss technique with EVERY single girl since i got into the community and i have never had it fail. girls love it! real talk.

Sometimes, even when they've asked for something specific, I give them something else. Like say, they wanted soda, I'd get iced tea. Hehe.

I'm not scared to change my mind too, once in a while. You don't want to be difficult, but you just can't be predictable as well.

Everyone of these guys is giving great sound advice. I know for a fact my game goes to crap when I dont have anything to do but wait for a reply to a text/email ( I make alot of AFC mistakes). So when I get out of college for summers and breaks I have to find a bunch of stuff to do like volunteering, working out, maybe 1 or 2 part time jobs to earn some play money, or find a ton of girls to talk to (just so I dont focus on one), read up on some social psych stuff, or even pick up a video game controller and have "me time" (not recommended if you are easily glued to things like this). The point is keep yourself engaged, and from all that stuff youre gonna be doing you develop: good stories, possibly some good friendships (for value and also to keep you engaged), become much more social able become just an overall better guy and you can look at yourself in the mirror at night knowing you did an awesome job at getting everything you could out of your day. You walk a little taller and get natural attractiveness. Believe me women find this really sexy and you become a natural challenge to get time with. Your time is precious and limited to play with. From one teen to another

haha, thanks man.

With the holidays being busy and all, I got to fully realize what you guys are talking about. I mean, since I was busy, it was also easier to talk about what I'm busy with and just go on and on and on, and then bail because I have somewhere else to be. Haha.