Please help me lose this girl LOL

i got a HUGE problem. I got this girl that i bone regularly. there are a couple things i dont like about her, but i cant get rid of her. I cant for the love of myself tell her to go. Every time i do, she either sends a text and i keep it going or she calls and i keep it going.

Physically i get release. i feel a whole lot better if i fark regularly. BUT i dont get as much drive to approach if im with someone. If i feel like im still going to get some pussy i dont care about approaching. THAT SUCKS.

I dont want anything serious and while im drunk i seek her because i get to fark(like tonight), made out and have fun I dont want anything serious with her because she doesnt fit the whole criteria of a woman that would make me stay exclusive.

what the fark do i have to do?

I would be upfront with her - let her know you love being with her physically but it will never be more than that.

If she sticks around (highly likely - women enjoy sex as much as we do), then great.

If it scares her off - great.

Limit your time with her to less than 2x a week.

And get off your butt and meet more women.... don't use this a crutch.

If you enjoy being single, you should be hanging out with 3-5 women anyways. She is just one of the 5.

BP

Let me illustrate the simple best solution for you - If in the PUA world u have to play hard to get look exclusive enough to get a girl, why not do the exact opposite. Trust me, it doesn't make sense but it works for me. Play the wimp. Dote on her every second. Call like 1000 times a day just to say HI. Dont act like u dont want her around. Become a WIMP and she'll flee...

Yup agree with Bill. Just be real with her.

And get off your ass and go get some more! Its New Years Eve go tear it up!

aaarrrrggg this week sucked. PU didnt went well and i really want to fark. so guess what happened i started talking to her again, even felt a little needy to add sh1t into the situation. the next two or 3 days im gonna go nuts approaching and ill see if i can take this curse vagina has on my head :P

to make things worse the bitch is pretty good on the sac. we get along very well

btw bill, ive been very clear to her that there will be nothing more than sex and fun.

i gotta deal with the comformity problem i have right now. i gotta keep approaching no matter what even the days i get some. sigh
anyone else has had this problem?

i feel ya pain brother, got one right now, told her i want nothing but farkin and shes still around. does take alot off of game when you know you cant get p**** regularly. but like bill said dont use it as a crutch use it as a weapon...works like a charm, cuz even if you fail at meetin a new girl that night your still set, feel me?!

nice to know im not alone jbardu87. its pretty hard knowing its there so easily. its easier to be completely alone and pressured to approach.

it happens to the best of us man. but lke bill and i said dont let it be a crutch to your meeting new girls. think of it this way, if one girl wont stop even after you told her you want nothing but farking. how many other girls want the same?! then swell that head up and go out with the knowledge that you can make a girl fall head over heels with out even trying!

Err... I think you just really have to 'man up' and decide what you want. If it's regular sex, then keep her. If it's an opportunity to grow as a man, then just don't respond to any of her calls and texts anymore. Or if you must, make sure it's just to tell her you're busy.

And well, keep busy.

But is she looking for anything serious with you? Could be, you're also just her f*ck buddy, you know, and her Plan B at that, haha.