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Well put with everything yeti! body language and charm r key! I usually stick with situational openers when I'm out. Love outside a bar when there's hb9s smoking or with their girls. Use something like, you kno smokings bad right? As a big ass grin sweeps across my face nd I'm smoking too. With this tho I usually already am running the bar like I go there everydAY and girls respond to that really well. I always get to kno the bouncers by name, even if its my first time there. I talk to the bartenders, guys girls. I usually leave a place with people knowing my name in a good way.I mean the last bar I went to it was like four in the morning its closing up, this Indian chic is pretty much guaranteed but I still had to ARM wrestle the bartwnders lol. It's all about enjoying your night like yeti said!!

With the right body language u can kiss close without saying a single word all night. Ask me how I kno lol

Watching that video on how to move reminded me of something. Sometimes when I'm in a club dancing, I'll slowly back my way into a girl and bump her, but I'm almost swaying back and forth similar to the video when I do it, and I try to make the bump seem as accidental as possible. Sometimes what happens is we'll end up back to back and I can feel her dancing. Since she didn't move away I can assume that there may be some interest and vice versa. One time I did this the girl actually turned around and put her arms around me and started dancing on me from behind. I quickly turned around and started dancing with her face to face and then said "hey there, what's ur name?" I was suprised it worked though and ended up having a good night.

Jbardu87, it sounds like we have a very similar sarging technique!

That's a great point, never under estimate getting to know bouncers and bar staff, if you do It well enough, it's immediate social rapport! And as we know, the bar is a great place to open!
Smoking areas as well, as jbardu87 mention are great! In a club/ bar/ pub situation, they are my favorite places to open because in these areas its effortless! The trick is to know where you're going without looking like you're on the prowl, HB's Sense it!

One of my favourite tricks while served at the bar is note origami - basically folding your money into something like a paper aeroplane and lining it up to throw at the bar staff as they're returning with your beverages, usually gets a good response or at least a smile, great way to open bar staff, OR open a bystander, or even a HB "hey, do you reckon I could get this in the til from here?" - cheeky half-smile on your face!

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So very true. Once women sense that you are there looking to get laid, it's game over. David Deida would probably say it's because your life is not then aligned with your highest purpose. On another level, when you're on the prowl, women become your #1 goal, and when they're your goal, you're doomed. This is why so many PUA's and whatnot tell you to just go out and have a great time, and make having a good time your goal. I washed sarging out of my vocabulary. I don't sarge, I live my life the way I want, and have fun, and meet women along the way.

raven soo very true man, having fun should always be goal 1 when going out!

yeti im gonna try and see how the oragami thing works out tonite!

im also planning on tryin the cocky funny thing tonite, gonna try to get outa my natural mode and onto the PUA style. but more importantly im going out to celebrate gettin a 82 on my asvab!!!

cheers
-bardu