perplexing situation!!

so heres the deal, when i drink im a natrual at PUA stuff. i mean like 4-5 one night farks, soo many k closes, and usually at least 10-15 numbers in a single night. that is who i consider drunk jon. talk to any girl about anything most of the one nighters were girls that normally would never do this! 3 out of the 5 are almost sober, slightly buzzin'

when im sober its like i have no idea what im doing. i mean if i already am chillen with the girl and im not drunk i know what im doing but i really cant sarge with out having a decent buzz on. let alone meet a girl out and get a night nite f close on her. how should i attempt at training sober jon in drunk jon ways? i mean i understand why when im drunk im much better with girls. im fun, beyond social, talk to everyone, become much more sexual and escalate keno amazingly well, always keep a positive frame and really have no fears and/or thoughts that i have gone to far.

but how do i take that and turn sober john into this beast?

you just told yourself. all you need is balls to get that things going. Its mostly a mind thing. set yourself and let go.

im gonna try gettin out of my head when i dont drink and just have fun! thanks for the advice pr!

Your problem is inhibitions and I think you've used booze as some sort of crutch, believing only through drinking can you get in that frame of mind where you can let go and let loose.

Anyway, I prefer sleeping with sober guys. They taste and smell better

haha, ill keep that in mind!

yea, the bad part tho is i know its a crutch, and i know its all in my head. but im soo successful when drunk vr when sober. i can approach sober (sometimes) but then i go blank and cant think of anything, and if i do i tend to think its stupid (get way in my head). i guess i need to work on my inner game more or less. work on knowing that im amazing. and believe personally that these girls need to get on my level or get off the field.

well im off to the bar, gonna try staying soberish!

thanks for the advice!

Just think to yourself, its so much more fun when your sober to remember it!! I have closed alot drunk (nothin to bad), but I dont remember alot of it sometimes. I woke up with a girls number, that I dont remember getting. Thats why I dont drink anymore, it farks you up bro. Good luck to you

yea man i hate that feeling it happens alot too...like last night i ended up getting sh1tty. k + closed on the train home and have no idea what her name was or how good she looked. alcohol is the devil lmao