Anybody got help for dancing...

Anybody got any way to help me with dancing at clubs. I got the grinding down obviously. But the rave dancing at clubs throws me off something awful (Techno). Also, hip hop dancing kills me to, any advice there guys (mainstream)? Linking videos and stuff would be a help, as well as advice in text form XD.

best way would be to check your local area ans see if they have any dance clubs, like a real club, or class. A groupof that get together to work on new dance moves, or to just hang out. Best way to learn is to get out there and do it.

I hated dancing. My flatmate changed my mind by putting on music and having us dance round like idiots in our apartment. Monkeys one minute, zombies the next. It started to break down my bad associations with dancing.

Then, as he was a musician, he started to show me the beats in the music. This may seem obvious, but what wasn't to me was there were lots of small beats in the music and extra beats that I didn't hear before. As I started to listen to it my body started to pick them up.

Then it was just a case of listening to the music they played in clubs all the time but at home until I knew the beats and little beats inside out. I started to dance to those beats at home and believe this or not my friend, dancing is like anything in life, you only get good if you start practising A LOT!

Don't go to the dancefloor in a club and hope to start looking good unless you have practised at home for hours first. That's what the dudes who look good on the dancefloor do, we all need to too :-) The hot girls I have had over the years who dance good are always in their bedrooms dancing to MTV.

Even now, if I haven't been practising dancing at home and listening to the music I forget how to dance. Guess it doesn't come naturally to me.

I did dance classes too, street dance, etc. Was really cool and fun, but didn't help my dancing much as the moves were way to complicated for me go onto the dancefloor and attempt without making an ass of myself :-D

First, go to places where you like the music. It's very hard to dance to stuff you don't feel.

Second, dance in front of the mirror. Or camcord yourself dancing. Make it as ridiculous as possible (for example in your underwear) get a look at yourself and modify whatever you feel you like.

Third, get comfortable with your own videos. You should keep modifying what you don't like till you can see yourself in the mirror or a video and be ok with it. Take a mental picture

Fourth, go to the club and let it fly. Transmit the fun you are having (which should be the equivalent fun to dancing around in your underwear, which is super fun) to the chick you are dancing with. She will feel this vibe. She will be into it.

Also, use the Opener "I bet you I can make you have more fun than anybody else in this club within 30 seconds"

Tell her to imitate you and dance.

Don't be afraid to have fun. As long as it is genuine you will not be a clown. After 10 seconds of having her laugh and follow you, grab her hand, give her a little spin. Then take her cues, play your cards right, you'll get a kiss by the second or third song.

Once you master that, start looking into dancing that relates to the music you like. Only once you've mastered your body can you start acquiring new moves.

Grimbo - check out this thread (with video)

http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...7-dancing.html

Thanks for all the help everybody!! Im gonna tear it up next club and party I am at

Anyway I can get video of my dancing? I dont wanna youtube anything, but can I upload a video directly here for you guys to crituiqe, the experts that is

Go ahead. I've done all sorts of dancing, from tango to salsa to popping to swing(once)

HEy rememberthis, is there a way I can upload it directly to this site? I do not wanna put a video of me dancing on youtube