I want to steal a girlfriend...

Hey guys, this is my first post on the forum. I'm looking foward to honing my game here.

Let me explain the title of my post...

I don't just want to steal someone's girlfriend for the sake of it, that would be pointlessly harsh. I want to steal the girlfriend of someone i know purely because i strongly desire this girl and i am developing feelings for her fast.

See, i live in London and in my part of London beautiful women are few and far between. This girl is my best friend's older sister, although weirdly she is my age as my best friend is a year younger than me. I have known her for as long as i have known him which is just over a year.

I see her at his house every couple of weeks, briefly, while she's watching TV or whatever i'll say hi. I know she has a positive opinion of me and thinks i'm a nice guy. Great...

She has a boyfriend who she's been with for years. I don't see her often and have yet to even add her on Facebook since i don't want to look creepy. I realise a lot of people might tell me to simply forget about it. I mean, i'm already in an open relationship.

Still, i want this girl bad and i believe that there must be some way to generate attraction there. I have just started learning the Game. Advice would be much appreciated.


-Maxturbation

bump...

I do not advise to steal a girlfriend from some other guy if they're happy together. PERIOD. There's a reason why you haven't received a reply in your topic yet, because it is NOT OK to do this. It's way too egotistical. I agree, London is tragically devoid of beautiful women compared to other capitals in Europe, but that should definitely NOT be your excuse for wanting that chick AND THAT CHICK ALONE.

Learn some stuff that's on here, practice them on less attractive women to get the confidence you need to attract beautiful women and then build your way up the HB ladder.

I will firstly state I have a moral code, however, one facet of it is not to judge other people for their interests, beliefs, and goals. But the point of these forums, in the true sense of the PUA, is to help men achieve their goals and deconstruct the dynamics of relationships.

We don't have to help Max if we don't want to. One way we can approach it is to ask Max if he is positive he can give this girl a better life than the one she already has. Would we want to deny HER that opportunity if HE was determined enough?

Max, I can't say this will work; I am no expert. But use your friend to proof you. Use him to discover deficiencies in her current relationship. And without talking about them to her demonstrate that you are not a man with those deficiencies. If the man you are is truly capable of giving in these areas, then she would not be wrong to have you. Apart from this, SOP (standard operating procedure: be interesting. build Comfort / rapport. tease.). Show her you're desirable by women.

It's going to be a lot of work. Just respect her boundaries and those of her relationship. And report back.

Theres is plenty of single girls out there, dont waste your time trying to go for one in a relationship. Unless you like unnecessary drama in your life, or you really love the girl.

JT, you have a very valid point. Nobody is here to judge anybody or anything and nobody should do that, because this is a forum where males of all shapes, sizes and desires come together to build their romantic lives the way that they want them to be and seek out advice on how to accomplish what they want from people that have more experience. We've all been in one way or another where Max is now.

What's more is that should one choose to give advice is that it will certainly affect them at a deeper level, should the person that receives the advice chooses to take it. And that advice should be of the highest good possible for everybody involved.

One thing for him to consider is that if he still wants her ( he hasn't been around since he posted that bump ) at least wait until there is a conflict between them. It may or may not be any conflict, but it's still sound advice instead if interfering into things that are working fine just like that. If I were that guy, I wouldn't worry about this, but knowing that somebody that I know is actively interested and hitting on my girlfriend wouldn't exactly make me the happiest guy on Earth either. Flattered that my girlfriend is desirable, yes, always. Happy about all this, no, never.

It's great that you posted your balanced opinion on this, JT. Now he has multiple choices as to what to do now.