need help with number close/isolation and another situation

I don't know how to Number Close haha... I'm really good at opening and my friends say my style is cocky funny I get a lot of girls interested at parties/clubs and get very flirty with them but never know how to isolate or number close....

Usually what happens is I get cockblocked by the jealous friend I pawned to get to the Target or they leave... due to excessive talking... hate when that happens cause soon right after I realize that I shoulda asked the girl to dance or move to another part of the club.


Also problem #2.

I have very tight game when first meeting a hb7 - 10.. I play it off to perfection and get a lot of IoIs and good body language signals but then when I see them again..."the following day or when we hang out" I get really anxious/nervous and the game I threw down the first day goes to waste..

Does that happen to anyone else??

And if so why does this happen....?

And how is this fixable

There is literally hundreds of ways to Number Close. You can be like Ross Jefferies: “I enjoyed our conversation, there’s more to you than meets the eyes after all! What can we do to continue this conversation?” this way its her asking you 4 your number, therefore she is chasing you. You can be cocky/playful: I think my phones broken, you should call it so that I know that it works.” Ok that one’s kind of stupid. You can trick her “Have you ever had your hand writing analyzed?...No! ok then, write your name her (have paper and pen) now write your number underneath your name (since she’s already in the process, she’s likely not going to stop and say no) Ok, I’ll analyze your hand writing next time I see you, but right now it’s almost midnight and I don’t know if you turn into a pumpkin or a princess, can’t take that chance!” (or do any ftc you know and leave.) #2. Have her give you her phone. Explaining she can have your number. Once you type in your number in her phone, press send, than joke about it. Neg her after you number close. “now just because you have my number don’t call me 50 times a day, I can’t handle another beautiful stalker in my life right now” you have her number “I’m going to inappropriately txt you during class” or whatever you can think of. Hope this helps. If you want more number close routines let me now. P.S. these aren’t mine; I don’t remember where I picked them up though.

On your second question, I'm on the same boat brother, with follow up dates that is. Maybe your more comfortable with first impressions than dates cause their way more frequent...duh, that goes without saying. Make sure that the follow up date plays to your advantage. What do I mean? Go on a date that requires her to put her safety or image status in your hands. Let’s say you go bungee jumping or rope repelling..she has to rely on you for her safe being, establishing your male dominants, therefore making her attracted to you. Image status? Let’s say dance classes/miniature golf. You dhv because you can dance and she can’t, bring up your image and taking a little bite out of her self esteem. All of these dates take little talking on your part to build attraction, unlike taking a girl to the movies, where you don’t have to talk, but at the same time you’re not building that much attraction.

This is my problem. I got no problem opening. I'm a natural kidder. But, I start doubting if it's common politeness or genuine interest. When I do ask for the number it may be too soon or not confident.

Dude there’s this show called "key to the vip" look it up on you tube, there’s like 4 seasons. The show is where these players/pua compete against each other for vip privileges. The pua r given 3-4 minutes each to get a girls number in a club environment and its all on hidden camera. Four mpua judge them after three rounds of sarging. Take note of their body language. The shows like Mystery’s “the pickup artist” only without all the drama/bullcrap.

Why are you number closing her? If you can't answer that specifically then it's not worth getting her number. I don't mean well I want to get her number so we can fark duh. I mean what is the practical implication of getting her number. You shouldn't ever really ask a girl for her number under a "yea gimme your number and we'll hang out sometime" pretext. If she is giving you her number, it's because you 2 are planning to meet up in the near future. Or because you want to get to know her over the phone. That way you will have a legitimate reason to get her number and it will be not only easy but more of an inconvenience before you get back to talking. Getting a number shouldn't be a close or the last thing you do unless your in a rush and you want her number to continue a thread or just to chat her up later.

As for meeting up with her the next day. The reason why you get nervous is because your body assess that this is a new situation and that your meeting a new chick that could forever change your life. These are nerves of excitement. You want to feel that. It will push you forward. The reason you get anxious is because you keep worrying about how your gonna impress this chick and if you think she will find you cool/attractive/all that other mumbo jumbo. You don't want to feel that. That is useless to you. You should go out and have a good time doing what you feel would be fun for you and her. If your having a good time without her approval she will too. If not, then welcome to the dating world my friend. Just start to ignore her if she starts being b*tchy and then she'll be like "OMG, OMG, what did I do??". You should NEVER worry about pleasing a woman. The reason you guys decided to hang out was so thatyou could get to know each other better and have fun with each other. If you focus on doing that and ask her questions about herself not because you want conversation to keep moving but because you want to get to know her, then your only problem will be wondering where to find a place to do you know what. Hope that helps man...