Have you guys ever done this trick?

have you ever acted like the sex was a mistake or that you went too far, after you were done sleeping with a girl?

i've done it before with a girl who i just wanted to hookup with, but she liked me, so i didnt want her to think I was only trying to sleep with her. We'd hookup and then i would pretend to be shocked and say "whoa, i did NOT know that was going to happen" or "THAT can't happen again". The girl just looked really confused. She was a blockhead. She loved me though, so of course we'd hook up again.

i tried it on another girl, i said that we went too far, and this one told me to leave and she doesn't react the same way. I don't get it. I'm not getting the same reaction. She doesn't seem interested.

have you guys ever tried that move? what was the reaction?

Dooooooood. Rookie mistake.

A girl is looking for reassurance after you hook up. The play it slow card is ONLY played prior to sex. Jeeez man. Give her some love for giving herself up to you.

You don't freeze her out after she gave into you. Come on MAN.

BP

at least have the courtesy to Comfort her and give her a little time with you.

What's the trick? See how insecure you can make a lady feel after sex?

Wow man, I'm not even a PUA and I know that's a major mistake.

Aside from blatantly insulting her, that has to be the last thing you want to say! She may already feel uncomfortable, and in the need of reassurance and YOU tell HER it was a mistake? That will only feed that anxiety 10-fold!

Yeah, ditch that 'trick'.

I didn't think she'd feel insecure. I only do it when the girl doesn't seem like she wants to do it, like she's hesitating and thinks its a bad idea and does it anyway, or thinks I'm only after sex. I actually think it is MORE reassuring for the girl because then she thinks "oh, he doesn't just want to sleep with me". so that way she can't complain that I played her or used her.

I did this recently with a girl who invited me to her room but for some reason she didn't want to do anything. I was like, girl, yes you do, and she kept fending me off. She eventually let up and gave me a hand job (told ya she was into it!) and then after she was done i said that we went too far.

I dunno bro, I really think pretty much ANY girl wants to be cuddled after sex.

Usually, when your having sex, your both experiencing an enhanced pleasure, and you should want that mood to linger long after. Maybe its just me, but the cuddling after sex is actually really cozy/intimate, and I enjoy just cuddling and kissing the girl.

Its sort of like a workout in a way. You warm up (foreplay), you workout (sex), and you cool down (cuddling). Right?

Just avoid falling asleep right after, going to the bathroom to shower up and clean, calling friends, eating or just heading out. It is prime time to get your cuddle on and secure another night like this!

well recently, we didn't have sex. she didn't want to. so we didn't.