To best understand the benefits of having an attractive (optional) wing woman, let's look at the characteristics of women in general.
Most women are territorial whether it be with their stuff, their children, or their men. Don't believe me? Try picking up a stranger's baby without warning or permission.
The women worth having won't back down from a catfight as long as the fight is over something perceived as worth having.
Women thrive on drama and respond most directly to emotional stimuli.
Women are inherently homewreckers. They see another woman has a man and they want that man, at first. How many times have you heard a woman say, "I want a man like that" while referring to one of their friend's boyfriend or husband? They don't mean they want a man like that. They want that man. The hardest parts are already done for them, they feel.
Women know much better then men when they are being hit on.
Women talk. Men talk. Women talk way more and in greater detail than men do.
Women love being a matchmaker and watching romance blossom (with the right guy).
Women think men think like they do.
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Go to "*#", at in the middle of the post, to read background stories.
How do you get a wing woman?
Personally, mine are my friends. One is a woman I pursued romantically, RF. However, I slept with her best friend (at the time) the first night I met them both and negated myself to the friend's zone with her (my choice, initially).*1 Later, I "fell" for her. We had a little fling and now will only be friends in the foreseeable future. She is gorgeous. A veritable 9.5, some days, a 10.
Another close friend of mine is a woman I met through RF. Her and I never had anything romantic going, although, I have gotten drunk and tried to sleep with her. Nothing has happened and with her, too, I don't see anything beyond friends in the foreseeable future. She's around an 8. Nothing you'd kick out of bed. She will be referred to as JW.
The third I will discuss is RB. I met her when I was in college taking Fashion Fundamentals (A class with me, one other guy, and 35 women. He had the same idea I did!). She spent the night a few times with me, fling style, while i was burning through the women in the class*2. We have been very close friends since January of 2007.
These three women are my closest female friends. In many aspects, they are my closest friends.
Side note: you know you two are getting very close when you casually fart in front of one another or admit you have to poop instead of making up some other excuse to spend more than pee time in the bathroom.
*1. This is a prime example of a wing woman in action. However, she didn't mean to do it and it worked out against her. RF liked me. She had spoken highly of me to her friend. Even though we had not met in person beyond a very chance, brief encounter a year earlier, she really liked me. When her friend and I met, I already was seen as acceptable and sought after.
That night was Halloween. The entire night, I had to entertain two beautiful women fighting for my attention. Other guys approached them and tried to take them away. They pushed the guys away.
Other guys asked me which one was "mine" and which one they could have. I told them neither was mine, but they were both mine.
Other women in the club saw these two scantly clad women fighting for me all night and it netted me some action later.
At the end of the night, I took her friend home and she went home with another guy.
*2. Fashion Fundamentals is a class that must be taken for most fashion and design classes. It is taken mostly by females and homosexual men. Initially, women presumed I was the latter. The safer presumption. I allowed the belief.
I invited a few of them to a party at my house. That night, I entered the club with a whole group of girls and my one guy roommate (his sister, our other roommate, was also in the group).
The women saw me hitting on and flirting with every attractive woman I could find. It didn't take long before they were all competing for my attention both at the club and in class.
When we went back to class, the women I had not spoken to or who had denied my invitation heard all about how much fun the group of women had had and felt left out. More competition for my attention!
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When I call one of my female friends to go out, they generally say the same thing: Let's get you laid, tonight!
When they go out with me, they are essentially showing me off. It tells every woman there that I am a better than decent guy and they should want me.
The women I want will look at my friend as competition and I am the prize. My friends, although not romantically attracted to me, will compete for me. Part of this is for their own self-worth and part is to protect me from the other woman. This is very subtle and you should not look into it as being any more than being instinctual.
My friends will steer me clear of "bad" women. They know more gossip than I do and seem to have a better "sixth sense" on judging people. They don't like "sluts", but they know I do and will still help because they want me to be happy. They are only trying to stop me from being hurt; motherly instincts.
Women give men what we call the F-me look. Even after years of having it pointed out, I still can't always recognize it. Within moments of walking past a group of women, my friends can tell me which one is most likely to sleep with me that night and which one would be "best" for me in the long run. Thus far, they haven't been wrong.
I'm sure you've heard that women look at how you treat your mother to see how you will treat them (presumably as your wife). This is because your mother is , most likely, the female you are mosts comfortable with and have known the longest. Women know we put up a front to impress them. Thus, they put their guard up. If a woman sees you with another woman, and that woman is having a good time and appears to not have her guard up toward you, she will automatically take her guard down a few levels. This can work with women you don't know. If you look like you are having fun and she is having fun, other women will want to have that woman's fun, for her.
Women often leave a good man to chase the bad boy. That is because they will leave their reality for your perceived better one. If you have ever heard single women talk, all they talk about is how single they are and love it, but really don't want to miss any opportunity to meet a great guy (or a hot guy). ie, they all hate being single when given a decent choice. When you are seen with a woman, it is usually presumed you two are together. Your reality, to her, is that you are in a happy relationship; where she wants to be.
Earlier, I told you I lived with my buddy and his sister. Having a female roommate opened my eyes in ways that the experience could not have been replaced. Bringing a woman home to find you have a female roommate is instant credibility. It says to her, "A woman can live with me and we don't rely on sex to get along." Women all want to be wives with kids "some day".
Also, having a female roommate and female friends I go out with means I was/am seen leaving with a woman almost every time I go out. Sometimes, with women I just met. I frequent many of the same places and word gets around pretty quick. Even though I tell everyone we are just friends and nothing sexual is going on; they choose to believe otherwise (I say this about every woman I am seen with in any capacity. At most, I tell people we are "seeing each other" or "dating". The ability to keep a woman's name out of the mud is imperative to keeping wing women close).
No woman wants to be known as a slut, but given the choice between being ignore or loved; they'll risk the slut bit, for just the right guy: the guy who already has established himself as what women need.
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This has been proofread, but I will refrain from posting more in this thread until someone asks a question or posts a discussable comment.