Versus a Band Member

I'm courting this girl, and one of the most persisting problems I have with her is her ex-boyfriend. Here are a few of his characteristics:

- Tall.
- Slim, average body.
- A mega pussy. He was gonna cry when he found about about me and the girl.
- Supposedly outgoing.
- Can play a variety of musical instruments.
- Hates my guts.

If my knowledge of women is of any good then I'm into some trouble. He and his group formed a band and apparently they're a local hit. You know how girls melt for band members. And because this girl's cousin is also in the band I suppose she is going to go see their concert this month. Even though they haven't talked after their break up, I would prefer it if they didn't re-initiate contact since I'm sure she would fall for him again.

What are some things that I can do or employ to make myself come out as the alpha male? I work out, have limited guitar skills (which I have no time to enhance), and oh she dumped him to have a chance with me. I was thinking of doing some volunteer work to make me stand out a bit.

Men situation like this i handle with my local skills .. just manipulating the Women thinking and most of the time force her to imagine dream world and herself as a princess .. that would make her to believe i am her prince and .. . believe me then Even ...Tom Cruise can't steal your Gurl