how to undercover your skills

I have known this girl for 1 year now, and I haven't really talked to her, but I met her through my buddy. He knows I'm a player and score a girl everytime we go partying. He shares my success pickup stories with her, and I was cool with it because I didn't really like her and she was a little awkward.

Recently, I have started to like her and she knows how to look more appealing, becoming a nice HB9 or higher. So my buddy was telling her something about me, and she said .. "he's a player, like my last boyfriend, I want someone nice...."

how do I cover up my skills and make her think that I'm changing? I just need that one shot to prove myself than I'm game.

Once you get that label it's hard to shed. She'll be heavy on her guard. I have only got around this one way and it doesn't always work.

I ask the girl what stories she's heard and tell her that they are over exaggerated. I'll tell her that I am actually a pretty stand up guy and basically say and do things like most unsuccessful guys. (reverse psychology) The next time I see her I apply a little less reverse psychology and progressively ease her into things over the coming weeks.

This next comment will probably piss some people(women) off, but basically what you are doing when all is said and done is becoming the guy that (in her mind) "used to be so nice, but now he's changed yet I can't convince myself to leave him and I don't know why."

You have to break down your reputation with her and maybe even some of her friends and then build it back up without becoming unattractive to her which is extremely difficult, but not impossible.

- Spool

You just have to be yourself.