College party game (kiss close/f-close)

I need some structure on how to operate at parties. Any guidelines would help. I've been going out moderately for about a year now, but I'm still missing something.

Specifically:

1. Approaching/opening

2. Isolation

3. Making a connection /Escalation

4. Closing

Here's what I generally do. I'm a sophomore in college, i'm in a fraternity, and most of our parties are at the Fraternity house so I have "home" advantage . Thing about this is, most of a person's game is natural so you know that once you're thinking about what to do and how to do it, you're going to fail.

I'm known as the loud, funny guy. I have lots of energy, and when I go downstairs to the party area where all the girls/fraternity brothers are, I start off by talking to a few of the brothers that i'm closest with first. from there, you'll have a few girls here and there that are with the brothers, so i'll start teasing/flirting with these girls. No interview questions, hell most of the time these girls start showing interest in me before I know their names.

From there, i'll look around and notice that a few of the girls sitting around are starting to notice me, some usually start whispering and laughing with eachother. I go to these gossiping girls and ill talk with them, **tease them**, have one of them dance with me for a while, but **never trying to close, at least not this early**. Have these girls introduce you to their friends, and repeat.

Once you do this, eventually you'll have at least 1-2 girls that will show good interest in you. Most of the time, I don't realize this until I pay attention a bit. From there, I ask one of them to go outside with me and from there, I escalate the Kino a bit. Specifically, try hugging her around her lower back when you're talking to her, face to face. If she's into you, she'll return the kino and usually go in for the first kiss. The rest is up to you and how you compose yourself/control the situation.

The key is to be confident and smooth. Dress well and comfortably (and attractively) so that you're not self-conscious about anything. I generally wear a light colored button up Polo with Sperrys and pleated khakis/a belt. Nothing should feel out of the ordinary or awkward. if it is, you're going about it wrong.

Some more tips:

- have a group of friends, don't be that creeper who's at a party alone
- focus exclusively on the girl, don't share your class schedule (who gives a sh1t), your major (again, who cares), or any cool stories you might have unless you feel it's necessary. I generally flirt and tease, so none of that has any room in what I do.
- Hell, have sex appeal. Learn that and live it, if you don't have sex appeal you won't hook up, girls won't find you attractive.


This framework is what I use all the time, and i've used it tonight which ended up with me taking 8 girls with one of my fraternity brothers to one of the bars downtown, and with me hooking up with the hottest one out of all of them.

Good luck kiddo