fought this girls boyfriend

okay so awhile ago i was talking to this really cute brunette girl, shes atleast a 9. and i liked her and my buddy started talking to her behind my back so i got pissed but just left it and stopped being the dude friend. but then he started talking sh1t about me so for the past to months ive been telling ppl including him and his girlfriend (witch i continued talking to over the months..not on the best terms tho lol) any ways they started dating about 2 weeks ago and they both happened to be at the party i reached lastnight, i actually went with his gf aha so the entire night i was chiping him and eventually he got in my way at this small hallway, and he wouldnt move. me being the alpha male there was no way in hell i was moving for him. so he said something stupid so i poored my beer on his head (i know a waste of a brew..im sorry guys) then we ended up in the kitchen, i was really hammered so i dont remember all the details. but then he hit me with a left and a right and i trew a few bombs at his face as did he, i trew an elbow then kneed him in the face (i took abit of muay thai so i can fight) he dropped to the ground and i threw another 5 punches to his head and my buddy kicked me out. As i was leaving i walked by the girl that was out side and yelled something along the lines of "i beat the sh1t outta your pussy bf" and left and started to walk home, by chance i ran into the dudes ex and she (she hates him, i hook up with her all the time ) gave me a ride to my buddys place where i ended the night drinking a few more beers n smokin a blunt.

So thats my story, but my question is what do you guys think his gf thinks of me now? think she would be flattered or just hate me some more? btw he moved away to uni today, cant wait to hear what his dorm buddies think of his black and blue face haha

you sound like a f**king pussy with insecurity issues.

1- you're not an "alpha male" in any way if you end up losing your temper and getting into a fight, ESPECIALLY over a girl.

2- The brunette thinks that you're an unstable, insecure, and pathetic person. If you think that she's flattered because you beat up her BF, you don't know sh1t about game, and you probably will never.


I've had an issue like that before, where a close friend of mine was trying to hook up with a girl I was seeing behind my back. It DIDN'T end in a fight, it ended with me socially dwarfing him and eliminating all hints of his social value whenever he hung around me and the girl, or me and girls at all for that matter.

He still would try and text her but because my game was tight and because I knew how to deal with people like that, I was 100% sure that he would never have a chance with her. What do you know, he's out of the picture now and he's afraid to come join any circle of girls if i'm in it.

You know the difference between my story and yours? This guy, the girl i'm seeing, and people around me actually RESPECT me more now for teaching him his lesson. With you, people respect you much less now.

Congrats meathead, get off this site.

actually people do respect me because in my circle of friends everyone took my side and dont talk to him at all. I'm not a meat head i get good marks in school, why would you say im insecure? i get a decent amount of girls and this is the only person on this planet that has a problem with me, most people love me. i didn fight him because of the girl, i stopped being his friend because of the girl. i fought him because he was talking sh1t about me, you clearly dont know me because its not like me to fight people, and as i said i was hammered. if one of your old friends were to talk sh1t about you what would you do? just take it? that sounds like a pussy to me

and i only asked this because in a similar situation between two friends of mine the girl took theguy that won the fight and i was curious. atleast get some facts before you say things like that. you almost remind me of one of those little kids that say all this sh1t on youtube behind the securiy of your computer

personally i think fighting is never a good thing and should always be avoided. Fighting is for people who are dumb and not smart and cant handle things with their brains and mouth.

Alot of dumb sh1t happens when people are drunk, its just a way of life. Since i have been of a drinking age i have only been in one drunk fight and that was simply because it was unavoidable. I too would think you should forget about this girl.
Beating someone mentally is 10 times more effective than physically.

If one of my friends was talking about me behind my back i would simply confront him and talk to him about it (while sober of course)

Even recently i had a fight with a good friend of mine in a taxi on the way home form the clubs. After trying to talk to him for a while i just ignored him and he stormed off shouting insults at me. I told him i was ignoring him because we should just talk about it in the morning when we werent drunk. He felt like a right idiot in the morning and apologised to me asap!

Im pretty sure this girl wont like you so much after that incident.

every second that you are around a woman they will subconsciously evaluate your social standing with current company. you do NOT want to cave in or give in to anyone challenging you. DO NOT go with the grain, dont try to be the AMOG, AMOGs only are second best and they tend to win because that best isnt around

alright well thanks for the advice guys. and yes i know ive only been in a few fights and taken a few punches from my drunk friends and havent fought back