Social Butterfly or Cinderella?

Anyone who's used the Pandora system with success, I'm having trouble figuring out if this girl is a TJI or NJI. She definitely shows qualities of both. Any dead giveaways you think I may have overlooked?

To find out whether she is a Tester or an iNvestor, you can ask questions such as:

-How many guys are surrounding her?
-Does she seem to be popular with guys?
-Does she have more guy friends than girlfriends?
-Does she seem committed to one guy only??

Hope this helped out. Good luck in your quest!

Guys try to flock around her and she's pretty popular with them, but she spends most of her time with her girlfriends. Ended a four year relationship 7 or 8 months ago, had a fling for a few weeks with a coworker a couple months after that. Now she'll go hang out with guy friends, but if they try to move past that she gets frustrated and has to put them in their place. She says she isn't dating anyone and doesn't want to either. Feel like her type may be in flux right now or she's being extra guarded.

She definitely sounds like a Tester to me; a tester who was traumatized from the fallout of her 4 year relationship. She seems to be putting up her guard and denying her feelings, which are typical traits of a Tester, as described in pandora's box. This is apparent when (nowadays) she spends the majority of her time with her girlfriends. The fling could have simply been a rebound, which she tried, and did not have enjoy as she ended it with him as well which could also explain why you haven't gotten laid with her yet. Give it time and be patient, but on the other hand take it with a grain of salt and most importantly do NOT be that guy who is solely there for emotional support.

So just keep flirting and flattering her, then back off for a bit, and repeat? Continue to show interest, but back away for a few days to create "confusion or "Mystery" in her mind?

I may be a novice at this, but as far as I can tell I should show a lot of persistance, but when she reacts unfavorably I should punish the justifier in her by ignoring her for a few days?