Kino's Club Game (To Loud to Talk)

One of the most common complaints I hear from guys is that they don’t know what to do in loud situations. The truth of the matter is that club game, is the game at its best and purest form. If this aspect of the game is an issue for you, please allow me to fill you in.


Club game consists of two aspects, social proof and Kino Escalation. Let’s look at social proof first. In a club all the crowd has to judge you on is their eyes. Your first job is to be seen. When you see guys that you know, use big visible gestures, high fives, lean in man hugs, etc. Work the crowd, let them see you.


When you approach women, other women will see you. For some reason they will instantly assume that you know those girls. You could simply walk around the bar and ask three groups of hot girls what time it is, everybody will see it and assume that you are the man. I know this because I have done it many, many times. Do this consistently in your favorite venues and you will be a rock star.


Once your social proof is sky high, begin your approaches and remember talk is cheap. The more you talk the more you will dlv yourself. Talking should be kept to a minimum, trying will make you seem socially unaware. Use physical openers, walk up hand high in the air and get high fives, offer your drink for a toast, etc. Introduce yourself to the group and look for IOI’s, smiles laughing, etc. If you don’t get them and you get just a courtesy intro, move on.


If you get the IOI’s, think fast and fun. For example, Mehow’s ass slap routine is great, instant thumb wars are cool, or my personal favorite when I get a high five I will hold the hand and spin the girl when she completes the spin, in one swift move, I pull her close, wrap her arm around my neck and just start dancing. Otherwise, when I have got the girls in a fun vibe I will dance a little shimmy and lean into the girl(s) playfully, most of the time they will actually start dancing on me or relocate me to the dance floor.


Now it is time for the magic. Let’s turn her on and make her melt. Here is my personal kino Escalation gambit. I first put one hand on her waist hold for about 30 seconds and release. If she doesn’t show any resistance I keep going. Next, I put both hands on her waist and release. If she doesn’t show any resistance I keep going. Next, I put both hands on her waist and pull her close and release. You know the drill by now. Next, I put both hands on her sides with my fingers barely touching her ass and release. If I still haven’t gotten any resistance, i.e. she pulls away when I release keep going. I put my hands on her ass, (both cheeks) and release. Now, if you’ve gotten this far it’s time to win. At this point, I turn her around and grind that ass, once this is started I gently pull the hair and release. Many times, by this point they will be aroused and you will know it. Finally, it’s time for the Coup de’ Grace. While her ass is on me and I gently pull the hair I subtly move it to the side before I release. If she doesn’t pull away, I pull it just a bit more firmly and kiss her on the neck. 90% of the time she will desperately force her pelvis back into you. Hell, I have even had women shove my hands down between their legs. BTW, this entire gambit takes 15 to 30 minutes usually.

There it is fellas, a crash course on club game. Happy Hunting!!!!

Excellent advice man, thanks. My regular club is a rock/metal club, so this will come in handy.

here is my view on clubs.

Dont talk.

I exaggerate but basically leave all talking stradegies at home. There are plenty of places where you can talk it up but the night club is the place to let you body language and dance do the communication.
In fact, anytime you walk into a dance club you should have the mind set to dance even if that means the first few times all you do is work on the courage to dance. In fact, you might want to not even try to make a 'after the dance' move/conversation on someone until you are completely comfortable with just dancing even if that means coming back to the place for a few weekends. give yourself time and exposure, listen to the music even if you dont like it, let it speak to you. the only thing you should say to women until you get used to a place is 'wanna dance?'

In fact, you really want to get her to start talking to you first (after of course the 'hi do you want to dance' part).

If you dont ever see yourself as dance guy at a night club then honestly just go to a bar. With that said, being dance guy is TOTALLY worth it even if sex doesnt happen its a big ego boost.

My personal rule which isnt a rule I would suggest to all but its my rule. I do not under any circumstances look for a realtionship in a night club (I do in bars though). Its actually more likely to find a realtionship in a nightclub then what I use a night club for but with that said, it is my one place I go to look for nothing but a sexy good time and yes I mean what you are thinking of and no it doesnt work as much as I would like but its my one playground and i perfer to keep it that way.

Finding a realtionship in a dance club for me is bulls(t! yes I totally agree realtionship quality girls go there and most of them are looking for one that said, they are also looking for them in bars and in bars I can show my realtionship side much better!

Nice I like.

Some considerations:

- Indirect approaches / chatting her up is more appropriate in more social-club environments (lounge, pub-clubs, bars), not so much because thats how it is, but out of necessity.

Get her dancing ASAP. As much as I hate chit-chat, Ive come to accept it as a necessary hypotenuse. Just remember to kill the hypotenuse whenever possible.

- Dancing = immediate excuse for Kino Escalation.

This is great advice. I used it last night and ended up K-closing 3 HB7-9. Hi 5 everyone in the club, makes everyone think that you're just an awesome person. My social proof value was extremely high and then the women were just naturally drawn to me!!

Thanks Suave Kino

very interesting stuff cant wait till the to try this out.