An alpha male is a happy, dominant man who is secure of himself, sexual, in control, non-apologetic, of high value and comfortable around hot women. He is the prize that women want.
He knows that women are very sexual creatures that need sex. And they'd like to have sex without consequences for them. They have to avoid the slut label and pregnancy. Therefore he is discreet with women. He doesn't brag about them. His manly desires to have sex with beautiful women are perfectly natural and it's not something he has to hide.
In order to become an alpha male, you must develop an internal locust. This means that your happiness is based on what you think of yourself, and not what others think of you. You don't need anyone's approval but your own. If a woman doesn't like you, that's her problem. You are the prize, not her. If something is wrong in your life, look within yourself instead of blaming others. They don't do your actions or make your decisions. Develop a positive Mindset and avoid negativity as much as you can.
You need to be in control of yourself and your surroundings. Be confident and don't seek anyone's approval. Don't be needy. Be outgoing and make a lot of friends. Be playful with women. They're fun, not important. They're an added value to your happiness, not a cause for it. Be decisive when it comes to decisions. Make them, don't overthink them.
Be in control when pushing for sex. From the approach until the lay. Do so by being the one who takes all the steps from asking her out to initiating sex. When you're in a relationship, you decide when you have sex, not her.
Never be jealous. There is no man your girl talks to that has higher value than you, so they are no threat. Don't be afraid to look directly at people and keep eye contact. When you're talking to someone, do so a lot.
Don't spent money on a woman until after you have sex with her. Doing so is a way to reward her for her good behavior. For example, take her out for dinner after the first time you've had sex with her. Before that, don't spend more than a few bucks. Take her out for coffee or something inexpensive like that. But never say that you buy her something as a reward.
When you're speaking to a woman, engage the emotional side of her brain, not the logical one. So never try to impress her with your expensive car or fat bank account. You don't need to impress her as you don't need her approval. Instead, always appeal to her emotional side when speaking to her. That's the part that will get her attracted to you. Make her feel emotions.
Never bring up boring topics such as the weather or politics. If you run out of things to say, find an interesting topic few people talk about (for example: If you could pick anyone, who would you hit?).
Say no to women at times. Women love it when a man can say no, and doesn't do whatever she says. It shows authority and sets you up as a challenge for the woman. You will raise your value if you're not always available to a woman. Answer her texts and calls late.
Speak your mind. Talks slowly and with a low voice. Don't end sentences with approval-seeking phrases such as "isn't it?" or "right?".
If someone is talking to you about something they're good at or proud of, make them feel happy by asking them more about it or praising them. Don't talk yourself up by saying you can do that too or by telling them something you are good at. Make them feel good and they will befriend you and look up to you.
Lead the conversation by introducing new topics. Don't be afraid to interrupt her while she's speaking. Be optimistic. No girl likes a pessimist who just whines on and on about how screwed up his life is. Say thank you when people do something for you. Compliment people when you genuinely see something you like about them.
Don't brag. Don't put yourself down. And don't put other people down. Don't lie. As Style wrote in The Game: "One day she wakes up and asks you how many women you've been with. This is the only time you're allowed to lie."
Listen to what women are saying. Not concentrating or daydreaming is for your spare time only. However, never take relationship advice from women. They will tell you exactly what to do to get a long term exclusive relationship without sex.
When you want to go out with a woman, tell them. Don't ask "Would you like to go out with me sometime?". But say "Let's go to Pizza Place at eight tonight. I'll see you there." Give her a time and place. You decide because you're in control. first dates are supposed to be casual. Again, don't spend money on her before you have sex with her. So take here someplace casual where you "don't" have a date, but a nice social interaction. This will also take away a lot of awkwardness and nervousness.
Keep an open body language. Hold your shoulders back, walk slowly and spread out your body. Keep it in an active way but move in a relaxed way. Keep your head up, don't look down. Of course, if someone is smaller than you do so because keeping your nose up in that situation conveys arrogance. When you're sitting down, lean back and relax. Be touchy, because touching women is perfectly natural to you.
Don't show nervousness. For example, don't touch your face all the time, try not to blink a lot, and don't move your neck and eyes fast.
Don't look at women all the time. You're an alpha male, so you have high standards and a lot of women in your life already. Even when that's not true, you should adapt to that mindset.
If a woman wants to do something for you, like paying for a drink or cooking dinner, allow her to do so. It means you did something to deserve it and if the woman can reward you for it this way she'll feel good about the two of you.
It's okay to date multiple women at once, and even to sleep with different women. As long as you honestly tell her BEFORE you sleep with her. Tell her you only want a non-exclusive relationship and she has to be okay with that.
Be well dressed and try to look as good as you can.
So be confident, happy, dominant, secure of yourself, sexual, non-apologetic, relaxed, comfortable, interesting, exciting, listen to people, create confident and open body language, know what you want, create an inner locust display high value, be a leader and make others feel good about themselves. Smile and become alpha.
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