help with a defensive friend

okay so i made the same "mistake" of sleeping with one of my friends but she wanted to and shes really hot so how could i say no lol.. slept with her twice now so i guess she didnt think it was a mistake but anyways, the other night we got into a bit of an argument but apoligized afterwards. but now every time i joke or flirt with her she gets really defensive for no reason, and i just cant figure out why, any advice?
btw this is my first post on here so if its in the wrong place my bad, and if anyone has any criticism on the way i explained my post id also like to hear it

Hey Petro, welcome to the club.

I don't have all the details, but from what you're saying, the following is my opinion:

I think you should chill out a bit and not call her or hang out w/ her as often if you guys are close friends, and when you do, make it very casual and not sexual, so like doing lunch @ Subway instead of dinner and a movie. In addition to that act like nothing happened. She wouldn't be weird about it if she didn't feel some sort attraction or something, IMO. She may feel guilty, and like you think less of her...so show her some respect. She doesn't wanna feel like a sexual object.

Also show her your not gonna sit around and wait for her to get over herself. You have a life to live, so don't bring up the subject again verbally. If you feel like making a move on her again at some point, then just do your thing. Cool it for now though, you need to rebuild the trust a bit before you can amp it up again!

give her the space she needs. lay off her for a while and let her think things through. honestly. you should do the same

she probably wont stop being defensive until you give her the space she needs.

thanks for the advise guys! she texted me back after leaving her alone for a few days! ..ill probably text her tmmrw or something haha