Theres this girl I met a week ago at coffeeshopThrough a group of friends.

I wanna hook up with her. I'm 21 and am a late bloomer. Never really been on a real date, hell never even kissed a girl.. This is something I don't really tell alot of people. I'm sense recently pretty good looking, good health and have a job (BurgerKing hah) A scooter and hopefully a car soon. I also have my own place and a great laid back personality

Ive watched almost all of david deangelos stuff and taken notes.

Shes a little young, she's beautiful.. and she wants to break up with her boyfriend as he's and abusive loser. Ive talked to her off an on and just let her talk to me and be laid back. I haven't asked her for her number yet.

My life had been very confusing and it's not that I couldn't get a girlfriend it's just that my life wouldn't let me until now.

I'm tired of having no real world experience and I feel that I want to just get into the game and bring this stuff into reality. So this is why I'm joining the forum today.

Anyway advice on where to start. I want to at-least kiss her, or better yet have her kiss me.

P.s I know about body language and most of what david D talks about.

One of the first things I think about was how I landed my first non-relationship kiss ... and one word.. unexpected.

I think that you are putting too much thought into it, it's all about how you play your cards at this point. She has a boyfriend... so show her what her boyfriend can't provide (that's up to you to decide) and you can't ask her, so what did your bf lack? .... The only suggestion I have is be the kind of person you are and show her how you two can be compatible. When all things are good, if you remotely lean closer, she'll come kissing you back.. just don't go the whole 9 yards.

hope that provides insight.

a good way to get her attention is showing your social proof, she's 18, this is where popularity at school and friends play a good role in your success, treat everyone whther you like them or not with respect and you'll earn the respect of them. So when people talk about you, it'll only be good things.

that's great advice man. What about her nmbr?. Do you think I should give her mine ?. But I dunno.

Eh, I don't think you should give her your number. I would kind of just keep it casual and let things fall into place. But if you really want to get her number, a line I always like to use(Which has proven to be very successful) is: "Hey, you've been really fun to talk to and I'd love to continue this later on. Maybe I could get your number and I'll call you."

Use that line preferably when you're about to leave, and always try to be the one leaving and not the one left.

If you have enough rapport to get a good, non-flaking phone number, a line that has given me success is, (acknowledging my previous time constraint)"Well I have to meet up with my friends at the next bar, how do we continue this conversation?" Sometimes she will come with me, sometimes i'll get her number, sometimes i'll get her email (almost better than phone number), and sometimes she'll give me a IDK look in which case I will be more direct and make a statement that "it was great speaking with you, give me your number and we might be able to continue this conversation later."

Obviously that line is location-assuming but...

I say that email is great because today email goes directly to the cell phone in most cases and it's less threatening if not enough rapport has been built before exiting the conversation.