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| | Re: how to make wonen chase you
Originally Posted by In The Tropics
Sure Thing Magic.
First, I recommend reading The Game(This is really just a story, but has good info infused into it) by Neil Strauss (Style) and Mystery Method (This is more of a how to book) by Mystery. Then I would also recommend "Rules of the Game" by Neil Strauss. RoTG is a 30 day workbook style how to book that also has a section with canned(pre-made and practicable) openers in it and a lot of VERY detailed information. It also has a section completely dedicated to disqualifying.
I learned a lot from these 3 books. However one thing all of these books say is practicing the learned material in the field is the only way to get it down and improve it. Also, don't get upset about rejection. See it not as rejection, but as feedback instead. Never blame a failed attempt on the girl or the situation. Instead look for what you could have done to approach the situation differently and work to do so when you are in a similar situation in the future.
Examples (Some of this is borrowed material :
1.) Put a girl in the friend zone
before she can put you there. "Hey you are just like a sister to me." or "You are an awesome friend."
2.) Do a Role Reversal. Say stuff to her that a girl would say to a guy, in a joking manner. Say stuff to her like " Hey, I am more than just a pretty face. Or " Quit trying to get me drunk to take advantage of me."
3.) Make her compete. Tell her you "are going to go talk to the more interesting girls on the other side of the room."
These are just a few examples of the MANY that can be used. Disqualifying should be used with qualifiers also in order to create a push pull. Only give her qualifiers if she is is doing something good though. Award good behavior, and punish bad behavior.
Great post. I have a girl right now who has a hardcore boyfriend (she lives with him blah blah) but is chasing the sh1t out of me because of these exact things listed above.
I was out last night and was talking to a hb9. the girl who is chasing me (the 1 with the bf) sees me and a few minutes later slaps me upside the head (literally) and begins flirting with me. we hav a real talk for like 20 mins just small talk... but she was constantly re-adjusting her hair and put on lipstick right infornt of me... (im assuming those r IOIS lol..) Then we start taking about the hb9 i was talking to earlier and how we new each other blah blah.... she said to me and i quote "i think im prettier". This is how you know a girl is interested in you! She is QUAlifying her self TO YOU!
Now this girl is a 10...nodoubt and she knows it... but iv treated her like shes a 6 from day 1.... this is how you get girls to CHASE you. dont treat a girl like complete sh1t...but treat them like they r just another girl...nothing special... (At first... if your dating then its different).. after she told me she thought she was cuter i said to her "debatable..." haha giving her nothing... making her feel like im not interested. This is so much fun to do ESPECIALLY TO HB10s. They are so use to every guy buying them drinks... hitting on them... and when u flip the script... they will chase you..and its fing awesome haha. i had this girl buy me a drink the last time we were out... and she has invited me for more free drinks this weekend.... another ioi? lol
SO my advice... play HARD TO GET...girls do it... all the time... dhv
A LOT... be a high value male... its super attractive. and false disqualify
like my man above said... flip the script... girls will go crazy for you.