number close, she texted first!

so I went to a bar last night, and I was outside chatting up with a dude from the club. Suddenly a HB9 girl walks out and knows the dude, i swiftly introduced myself and after the cigarette, we parted ways... i bumped into her twice, one her looking for the washroom, and second time she was wlaking aoriund by herself so I told her to sit with me... we chatted a bit on suuperficial stuff.

I number closed, and she gave me 2 hugs. She texted me this morning! (good sign?). This is the short text convo...

HB9: hey, it's Clarissa from last night, whats up?
Me: nothing, just at the gym. How was the rest of your night?
HB9: good, felt rough.. lol
Me: can you handle another night of clubbing tmr?
HB9: ya maybe, I have to work, but I will let you know. good to meet you.. text me later

short convo, so how should I reiterate I wanna club with her without pushing it and looking appealing? because I know I can f-close probably. Are things looking good for me so far?

That's cool

But try using statements instead of questions, because they imply that you don't need a response from her, which would in turn cause her to "try harder" because she knows you're not looking for a response and hence finds you interesting and more attractive.

things are looking great for u my friend. don't text her again just now for the date just text flirt with her but not 2day cuz she said to text her 2day and 'u're too busy' but text flirt with her 2 morrow and if she asks about yesterday say u wanted but couldn't but u didn't forget about her. u should get her to go out with u by tomorrow

thanks guys.. I think somehting I should point out. During our conversations becuase the guys brought it up, her last boyfriend was retarded but muscular and alpha male type.

She then admitted to .. "I like the alpha males.. I don't know what it is about me", I just responded with .. "oh, we're gonna have SO MUCH FUN!" and she just chuckles... but does that statement indicate a way I should act while in pursuit.

I didn't cling aorund too much and she's 4 years older than me... (27 and I'm 23)... and the guy (her friend) seemed to like my company, he told me to make sure I get in touch with him to party more.

yes u should act alpha

def be alpha bro... i had this HB8 begging for me to be alpha and now she wont talk to me bc i was to much a pussy. grab her face make out.... throw here agaist the wall... onto the bed and well.... u should b good w the rest.


duke

It's looking good for you. By texting you first, she must want to find out if you're also interested. I don't think you need to worry about the alpha male comment. Just being yourself got her to text you first.

I agree with AnaM, but also with Duke. Try to find the balance. But definitely be dominant when it comes to physical contact.