need help with mixed signals from an old flame

Its a little complicated,
we dated not very long a while back actually we just ended up making out at a few partys and all our friends kinda thought we would end up dating and neither of us really wanted.

here comes the complicated part. I made a big no no, she wouldnt stop trying to make me jealous by saying how she was going away to cuba and how she would be on a beach with a bunch of hot guys and it finally got to me so i showed her a picture of one of my really hot friends, she flipped obviously.

anyhow she cant stop talking about me to my friends and they are pretty convinced that she wants me although the conversations about me arent always 100% positive.

the best way i can describe it is : he's an ass hole but he's hot and theres like a divide between the 2, anyway i want to win her over, what should i do?

I think you are doing great! Here's the thing., we have positive and negative to say about everyone. Including our most precious parents... when lets say your dad ground you.. you probably told your friends he was gay and has no life. But deep down inside, you love him no matter what.

Same applies here, she really likes you and wishes you were a bit nicer, but your physique is there. SO what to do next, maybe be more joking and show her a better time. The picture oyou showed would demonstrate higher value so it's not a bad thing, just maybe not the smartest thing to do. If you want her or like her back, cut to the chase, ask her to hang out, and see where it progresses, you already kissed her and probably know her well enough, you could probably have a sober kiss at least. Remember, when they are sober, they will feel for you even more and the lips are one of the MOST sensual places you can touch... but NEVER complete turn really nice and change your personality, she likes you the way you are, just take a step back and enjoy the ride.

A few more details id like to add... It kinda got messy from the time we hooked up until now, around last spring we had a big fight and we didnt talk to each other until she started seing this new guy her new bf didnt last very long... and she got very jealous when i started seeing this new girl, a lot of stuff went down and at the end she tried to cover it all up saying they were just rumors and she could kind of get away with it seeing as how she never told me directly any of the stuff she apperently said but there was so much that its hard to believe that it was all fabricated and based on nothing.