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Unread 11-11-2012, 08:36 AM
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Default My state is usually good but I don't feel talkative.

My state is usually good but I don't feel talkative. When I meet a girl, I feel that I don't have much to say, it is not that I feel nervous, it is that I am not talkative, I don't have many words to say as if I didn't need women. It is true that I think I can still live a comfortable life without women, but of course it would be better if I had one or several women. How can I solve the problem?



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Default Re: My state is usually good but I don't feel talkative.

Dude, literally have the same problem. I go out in a good state of mind with the intent to talk to women. I approach, and then it just kind of goes nowhere because I feel "content" or something. SUCKS!


 
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Default Re: My state is usually good but I don't feel talkative.

You have to find it in yourself to be genuinely INTERESTED in people. Realize the value that people bring and get them to show it.

They can offer friendship, sex, jobs, tickets to an event, life lessons, cars, or even find out they are fellow PUAs. Remind yourself that EVERYONE is interesting, you just don't know it yet.

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Default Re: My state is usually good but I don't feel talkative.

Honestly speaking, I don't think I need friendship. I feel comfortable when I live alone. This doesn't mean I don't associate with people. I associate with my clients, and my business associates during work. If I need to consult people, I usually ask for help on the Internet. I don't want very much to attend social activities. But I do desire sex, but It seems that I have to go through a lot of hassles to have sex. This anticipation deactivates me. Please help! How can I think differently so I will be enthusiastic about approaching girls and seducing them?


 
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Default Re: My state is usually good but I don't feel talkative.

Well that's an easy answer. Find a prostitute.

Lol no, but seriously...alot of us are motivated to have sex and that's why we study this. It does seems like work, but that's only at first when you're learning the ropes. Eventually it will become second nature and effortless to find a woman you can sleep with.

If you want to easy route then I'd go Direct Game. The magic of direct game is that you need strong inner game. Indirect Game requires not just inner game, but many techniques to increase your chances. It's like playing chess. And just like anything else, you don't become a chess master in just a few weeks or even a month.

With direct game, if you are just looking for sex, then just be straight with her and tell her. I'd even use David X's line. After a few min of talking, pause then say, "I'm trying to figure out how to get you into bed." Gauge her reaction and walk away if she seems resistant. Go after another. It's that simple. Very important to hold your ground and look her in the eye when you say this. If you shake, or stick around when she says no, then you lose major points because she could come up to you later and tell you she changed her mind.

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