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Originally Posted by Grand Interesting idea. You tell us if it worked or not
But the reason that the pretty girls chase you as much is because you need to show higher social value with them. (Since they have higher social value than ugly girls) |
Exactly my thoughts. I've realized the more you believe in yourself and the more you feel like you have a higher social value the more others will see it. It's not enough to pretend, you need to believe it and actually achieve it. I'm not saying be conceited and think you're above everyone else considering status but improve your life and your game will improve. Make new friends, learn new things, get new hobbies, try and eliminate negative things from your life and focus on making the positives better. The more you feel you have a high value (be it social or personal) the more others will see it.
I was out of the game for so long and had major confidence issues when I started to get back into it. After long and hard hours going through this post and mainstream
PUA material I started to realize a common factor. Make yourself better if you want to get women. You get the people you are on level with. I'm not saying ugly women are on a lower level but they believe that they are and if you believe you are too then that's what you'll attract.
It's kinda like how they say a dog can sense fear and other emotions. Women can too (and so do men)! You are what you make yourself to be!
The idea is interesting, but I think it has more to do with your own inner perception of yourself. I know some guys who are extremely unattractive and women tell me this but they always say "I have no idea why, but I'm so attracted to him". It's because he's the most confident and self assured guy I know. He's not conceited about it, doesn't have a point to prove but he knows that he's got value. Women sense this. Just my $0.05.
I've taken this approach and it has worked for me. I suggest maybe you give it a shot. Spend a few months bettering yourself and increasing the way you see yourself. Be more social (without thinking about getting laid) and you will find you are able to mingle with just about anyone and have a great time too! (important not to just focus on mingling with women because you'll need to mingle with men in front of women as well).
You can do it!