Inner confidence wake up call

I want to address this issue of neediness, one-itis, and inner confidence briefly

I see post after post asking how you can get one girl, how you can make her like you, how you can get her into bed

It should never be about one girl, there's no magic bullet and even the best PUA regrets a few that got away, but the more effort you put into an individual girl the fewer you're going to get.

Everyone needs to stop getting caught up on individual girls. *Enough ultimatums, enough appealing to girls asking them to be your girlfriend. *Let them ask you and decide if they are worth it

Guys regardless of your experience, what you look like, your education, or particular skills, you all have something that women want.

You need to stop thinking about what you offer them, and start wondering who is worthy of your time

Remember a date is your opportunity to screen her, NEVER the other way around. *If she's a bitch, she's not worth your time. *If she's cool, reward her, if she's a pain, show her your disappointment*

Dating is a game, it's how it's meant to be. *It's ok to date multiple girls at once as long as you are open about it

*(see post for references how: How to remain non-exclusive

Keep in mind "serial monogamy" is not healthy.

If you're willing to commit to any cute girl out there it shows you don't value the ones you choose

Screen them, make sure a girl is pretty amazing before you decide she's good enough for you

Let them see you're valuable, let them see you're wanted, you have choices

Trust me it makes you more desireable, and it shows that if you decide to date a girl, she must be pretty special to make it on that list

Inner confidence guys, you're the prize, you're screening them not the other way around

Thats sound advise, do you have any technics of getting yourself into a Mindset that your screening them not the other way round.
At the moment im all ways trying to impress the girl witch has worked but I have come across as needy a couple of times.

Umm fake it till ya make it? Haha

It gets much easier after you get used to being confident.

I really don't use routines but if you want a place to start, try incorporating false disqualifiers "we would never work because x", tease girls on silly things, "really? You're from Wisconsin? (or whatever, you do x?), that's..... Kinda a deal breaker". Those things are magic

You also want to look into ways to elicit values (ev routines), that make a girl show she's up to your standards. Read Jugglers ebook "how to meet and connect with women", he's got solid natural (although very direct) game, and he's possibly the best at natural EV

After you start to turn it around you're going to notice an amazing shift in the way women start to prove themselves to you and how you actually care less about proving yourself to them. It comes together but hopefully that can help you start

And always remember the mind frame I discussed in the base post