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Unread 12-22-2012, 11:28 AM
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Default HOW TO: escalate sexually and text game

didn't really want to write this, but i keep responding to threads that need help on sext sexual escalation. so here's my own guide.

also, IDGAF how others do it, every PUA has a unique take... i just KNOW my routine works damn well. ^.~


THE SETUP
many GURU PUAs will agree to these points:
-// we establish that there is a female slut shield
-// we establish that females want sex just like men
-// we establish that, to destroy the sex shield,
--- we must create excuses for women to behave sexually

having established that, my text routine emphasizes
-// 1) u do not say/bring images of XXX stuff to her -- DIRECTLY
-// 2) this includes nudity - penetration - sexual actions - etc
example: i'll b in my bday suit for ur bday
example: i would love to have u underneath me

-// 3) what u want to do, tho, is goade her into sexual comments
--- u want to set her up so that her dirty mind will rework the
--- comment into a sexual thing.
example: omg, Jane, stop blowing me up so hard. ur mean
example: GF, u've been riding me hard all day, wassup.?!
example: since it's ur BDay, i'm bringing out the big guns.
-- i'm making sure u get a huge surprise and ur gonna love it

-// 4) when she DOES respond, and she will, u tease her for
-- thinking like a dirty girl and deny that u meant to b sexual
example:
HB: lol - ur gonna give me a huge surprise.? rawr
U: oh, u naughty peanut. i didn't mean it that way, i meant
i have this awesome gift for u coming.

-// 5) repeat #4 and till she builds a sexual rapport.

THE PAYOUT/REWARDS
-// 1) u establish the understanding that it's ok for her to be
--- sexual with YOU. her slut shield is lowered.
-// 2) it becomes routine for her to enjoy being ur temptress
--- as u both get laughs for her twisting the words.
--- such a funny smart girl she is, right.? ^.~
-// 3) u create challenge - why doesn't this guy want me already.?
-// 4) u create a strong sexual bond
-// 5) u get her use to sexual words with u, which u can
--- escalate in the next step.

WHEN DO U GO SEXUAL.?
i preach holding out till after sex if u want to build a relationship with her. but, if u want to be sexual sooner than later, then i would dial up the XXX talk with her gradually AFTER she becomes routinely sexual in what she says with u.

after 3/4 days of sexting...
PUA: feels so good coming in and out of these convos we have.
PUA: i enjoy coming back and hitting u up for more.^^
HB: oh, i luv when u cum inside me
PUA: omg, girl, ur making me horny now... stop that - lol

trust me, i have done this again and again... text game is my bread and butter after getting her digits. the girls will become sexual deviants because u make it funny and u allow her to be herself (sexual being like u). ur giving her the idea TO BE sexual with u...

if ur a literary geek like me - ur gonna become a sex god.

TEXT GAME - MY ROUTINE
-// 1) start the convo with HIGH energy
-// 2) think abt what u want to say, now think of how to
--- say it creatively. the beauty with text game is u can
--- bring fantasy/fiction into the equation.
--- example:
normal: How was ur day going.?
YOKi: saw a nekked woman chasing after her dog... so how's ur day.?

-// 3) keep it short as possible
-// 4) if u want something - use statements
example:
YOKi: Picnic at 6:23 Central Park... attend or get pied
HB: lol... what.? i'm busy
YOKi: unacceptable. give me a good time - or face Apple Pie wrath

-// 5) end ur conversations on a high OR do not finish and exit
example: saw two dudes slap fighting each other outside ur place. the dudes living in ur apartment at.... sorry - gtg. tell u later K.

-// 6) vary ur response times

IN CLOSING/MY STORY
text game is AWESOME... i love it. it is such a great tool to bond on another level.^^

an HB8 admitted to me she told her friends over n over that she needed to "F this guy now". consequently, at the time, she paid $1000 or so on a plane ticket to come see me for the FIRST time ever (mutual friend introduced us)... she did have LMR flying down, but she did not hesitate to escalate me and SDL me when we went out...

why.? she was comfortable sexually with me. i had already established that i wasn't abt the sex (lie) but i allowed her to escalate our texts sexually and made it routine.

what is the commonality here... ur making the woman want to work for u.

Cheers.^^


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Default Re: HOW TO: escalate sexually and text game

GOOD QUESTION from Atlas
from this thread: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

Atlas feels that women treat him differently from TEXT n RL.
"... i rarely text... whenever I see them in person, they always act like nothing has changed between us..."
*parsed post*
_____________
remember:
-// 1) text is a tool to set u up...
-// 2) it is a projection of u - so it must b congruent to ur nature in RL

so u can't act a seducing man if u r not always seductive in RL.

generally tho... my text game puts it all on the girl - that it's ok she went there... and go there often. when it comes to RL, it becomes an inside joke - an understanding just between u two... a naughty secret u share..... can u imagine how much they like that.?

but as u goad, deny and tease in TEXT, so too shall u be congruent with that in RL. the game is no different.

trust me, stick to my text game. i am an avg guy just like u who developed this to play a friendly non-pervy guy... and i JEDi mind f*ck her into believing she is in control of the relationship.^^


 
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Default Re: HOW TO: escalate sexually and text game

The whole using of sexual innuendos that could go either way is a great way to gauge how much you can sexually escalate, or if you need to scale it back for the time being; I use the strategy myself. Nice to see different variations of how people run effective text game as it opens up doors and exposes me to new ideas that I can incorporate into my own game. Great post.

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THIS POST RESERVED TO DOCUMENT GOOD TEXTING


link:
Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

on commenting abt her cooking:
U: omg, gf - i gotta call OPRAH n tell her
HB: lol... what.?
U: OPRAH needs to kno, Stacy makes a mean W/E
U: uh huh... i got the jones for Misses, Misses Staaacy...
U: she got it gooooo-in on. *emote singing icons*


 
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Default Re: HOW TO: escalate sexually and text game

yea... i learned to apply:

mirroring from Hightower

inspired to use: implied statements from Kino's #.close
and tweaked how he does it to fit my routine.


i'm sure we have all done a lot of what's written.... but it is in recognizing what it is that is key to learning.^^


 
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Originally Posted by YOKiTran View Post
GOOD QUESTION from Atlas
from this thread: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

Atlas feels that women treat him differently from TEXT n RL.
"... i rarely text... whenever I see them in person, they always act like nothing has changed between us..."
*parsed post*
_____________
remember:
-// 1) text is a tool to set u up...
-// 2) it is a projection of u - so it must b congruent to ur nature in RL

so u can't act a seducing man if u r not always seductive in RL.

generally tho... my text game puts it all on the girl - that it's ok she went there... and go there often. when it comes to RL, it becomes an inside joke - an understanding just between u two... a naughty secret u share..... can u imagine how much they like that.?

but as u goad, deny and tease in TEXT, so too shall u be congruent with that in RL. the game is no different.

trust me, stick to my text game. i am an avg guy just like u who developed this to play a friendly non-pervy guy... and i JEDi mind f*ck her into believing she is in control of the relationship.^^


I think you may have misinterpreted that statement...

What I was getting at was, my lack of Texting may annoy them, but in person they are still all over me (ie. they get over it quick). I'd rather interact in person than over text, I feel it is more personal.


 
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both is good.

i don't knock either.


 
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I went out on a blind date with this girl but nothing happened yet. She travelled abroad for a few weeks after the date. We've been talking on FB, just a message every couple days. She told me they cooked a turkey for news year eve and it turned on the smoke alarm. I replyied that I did a deep fried turkey. Yeah, you fry the whole turkey at once. She got interested and asked for more details. So I managed to put lots of sexual innuendos on it. Follow my answer just as an idea/example, think it came out good but she wont reply anything more dirty. But maybe can start switching something unconsciously.


"It was a nice party, but tough to arrange! It has been a few years that we didn't throw a big party at our house. We gathered more than 30 people. Luckly I have a few friends that enjoy cooking also. Fried turkey is very laborious but always a sucess... It gets very tender on the inside, you don't notice difference between the breast and the thighs, it's delicious. And the oil doesn't penetrate, it only creates a thin crust on the outside. You should try sometime."


 
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Default Re: HOW TO: escalate sexually and text game

lol... it may have been that she didn't see it sexually.

it's fine tho... just keep texting now and then and keep it interesting and fun. she'll slip and say something small - and u can blow it up and tease her then.

also, when texting - u get the chance to look over what ur saying. so here's ur opportunity to look what u say over and do ur best to shorten it. i think most people dislike seeing a sea of text unless they are already interested.

it's best u not wait on her - but give her time to come around. just like any girl, u wanna not care abt getting something - but fish to as many as u can..... they all come around sooner or later.

GL


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