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Unread 02-12-2011, 11:07 PM
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Hey guys I just found PUA and this would be my first post! Okay I danced with this girl at the club the other night and she was amazing!!! Drop dead gorgeous!! I was hooked when i saw her the only thing is i didn't try asking her to dance until the bar was close to closing so i only got one song in.....i sent a friend request on Facebook and she excepted and i was wanting to know if it would be strange or to forward if i messaged her hi or something in that nature? is this even something to try or is it a lost cause! the way i look at it what would it hurt....but if i think that then what would i even say if i messaged her?

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Unread 03-30-2011, 07:37 AM
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I like the idea of texting a woman, 2 days after. Reason: Because she is expecting you to text, within a day or so, and you will be put into the he's like every other guy category. Let her "hope" that you will text her.
What to text? : Usually adding something that has to do with another girl, could be useful if she is that type of girl, and if you clarified that she is not the only girl that you "hang out" with. Make sure she knows that for you to spend time with her is a bit out of the way, and that she has to be grateful.
something like: "i will be at "some place" at "whatever time". "add a funny/cocky comment that is common for both of you" --do not ask, the question "are you going to show up?" or something like that, because you come out like you are desperate. You are a woman lover, you are not desperate, you have other woman you could hang out with. Make sure that she doesn't think is all about her. But with this example, you will make her think, he thought about me, and he wants to see me, without you actually saying it.
John Alanis, adds that he always starts out with "coffee meetings" if that is appealing to you. My version is: I always have coffe at "some place" at "some time" before i go to play soccer. Always enjoy the company of a lady". The point to make in timing and texting is: Do not come out like you are desperate. Or she will put you in the category of "like every other guy" make her wait a bit.


 
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how about sending her this:'u know i didn't tell u this last time but u're a good dancer.... not as good as me but still look i'm going to x place at x time for a drink and then maybe i'll head off to x club(or something else with dancing)' that should do it


 
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You added a girl on fb because you danced with her at a club? Erhm alright, how many fb friends do you have?!?


 
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Just remember, do it because you want to, not because you want this girl to show up, even though, those are your intentions. Have a good time when you go out without having to worry about if she is coming or not. If i was in your position, i would go out and meet a different girl, and instead of waiting until the last minute, start the night with a bang, and approach a girl early in the night. If/When she shows up, she will see that, she has competition, and you were kind enough to let her know that you were at the club.

It shows 2 things in particular that I like:

1 - You are not waiting around for her.
2 - You are a man that given the chance can/will meet other great women, and that she might has lost her chance with you.


 
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Great post


 
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great stuff guys, thanks


 
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great info, thank you


 
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Text the next day. saying hey it was nice to meet you the other day


 
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Hey guys, just wanted to get some feedback or thoughts I had on a situation I came across on Saturday night. I went out for a few drinks with some buddies late at night, met a beautiful girl who came up to me and started talking. We instantly hit it off, I was dancing with her, getting along great, got about 30 min of alone time with her and got to know her really well and we both really clicked. I number closed at the end of the night. Sent her a few texts later that same night telling her I liked her and was going to take her on a date sometime. She said she was interested in seeing me again too and told me to let her know when I wanted to go out. So I don't contact her on Sunday at all, then Monday I text her "Hey I just wanted to let you know I had a great time with you and I hope to see you again soon"...no response at all. I'm wondering if it was because I didn't technically ask a question to her, it just seemed a little weird. I know her girlfriend and her girlfriends boyfriend were at the bar with her and maybe they said something bad about me, but even then I know we had such a great time and I'm just wondering when you guys think I should text her back. I don't want to look desperate but I don't want her to think I'm completly not interested anymore either. What and when should I text back? Thanks guys


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