lol ok well if u guys havent thought about it, you obviously are not the only guy talking to these girls but no need for us to get mad or think they are playing us. they are trying to find a guy they want to date/marry. So what we have to do is change ourselves and just be better than the others guy. Luckily for us most guys send the same boring text like "hey cuie hows it going" or " hey whats up". believe it or not but most girls start getting used to the same old text and start just getting into a thing where it doesnt even phase them and sometimes that just dont remember if you guys talked. So when sending that first text ever or to just start the convo. you want to show her things and remind her of the positive feelings she has for you.
First text donts: first text dont ever's
For many guys the first text can wreck their heads and have them thinking for hours about what to say and for some reason they always say the same old lame sh1t. Thats where you guys start being different and turn something like "hey whats up" into "hey (her nickname), i just saw something that reminded me of you and made me laugh so hard i almost died!!" just being able to be different, be memorable, and warrant a response while bringing up her feelings is the way you make an effective first text.
What needs to be in a great first text:
-It needs to bring up the initial attraction between you too and bring back up some rapport topics or other things you did to get her first attracted to you.
-You need to warrant a reponse by either asking a question or stating something that she will more than likely want to know so she will text you back.
-Lastly it needs to be fun, playful and different so whenever you text she is excited to talk to you
So the basic idea behind having a great text game is basically changing your text from the normal boring sh1t and get her attracted to you just through text. So the way you do this is not only be different but different in a good way. This entire time i have said different but i didnt mean something crazy i just meant dont stick to the normal sh1t. Like you remember those times when you first started texting and you would just say things like "hey" or "whats up" nowadays girls want someone that can excite them and prove that without a doubt that they are attracted to you.
and i guess since i am bringing up first text we better just talk about how to first open a girl on facebook. I have on few occasions opened a girl on facebook that i have never met and know nothing about. The only thing you really can do is try to get to know her by her profile. Women these days have shown their lives and what its like to hang out with them all over facebook. So if you have a facebook friend you have never met and think is pretty hot you have to try and send an effective first message that gets her attracted, warrants a response and then gets you guys to start talking so you can try and pull the number. The way most guys mess up is their profile. Once a girl gets a message from you and sees your trying to hit on her she is going to check out your profile. So you need to make your profile seem like it is completely alpha. After that, you guys have to look decent and your more than likely going to get a response.
Ok one example for me which is probably arguable about whether its good or not. But here it is. I looked at her profile found that she really likes music, likes completely loves it and then i also saw her putting herself down on her looks. I was thinking "god damn, look at the HB8-9 puerto rican girl that has perfect curves and just overall amazing body and she says she didnt look good. So that was one thing, i need to be direct and compliment her to qualify her while boosting her ego. So just those two things, something she liked and her self esteem were the two things i put in my message to make it specifally for her. i put...
"Hey music pants. I just needed a girls opinion. Me and a friend have been arguing. So i had to show him he was wrong. Being a very attractive girl, do you hate it when guys compliment you on your looks in such a vulgar way? I have been arguing and saying its wrong to do it in such a vulgar way but in the end the compliment is good. This is so confusing and just needed someones help.
Its arguable and i have had tons of people fight with me on it, but im actually displaying that im an alpha. i seem like i am purely asking her for her opinion and thats it, but then im also opener her with an opinionated opener, so this will def. get her thinking and will more than likely reply, but im also giving her a nickname and building rapport and being different. So i feel it was pretty good but i also know i am still working on my facebook openers. Facebooking random girls is the hardest thing cause they can ignore you so easily and you have nothing to go off of. But now lets say you have a girl you went to high school with and just talked to every now and then but she is really hot. Thats different cause she has met you, you just need to start building the attrraction. She will more than likely reply cause she knows you and then she wont feel awkward that some random guy is trying to talk to her.lol
ps. i would love to discuss facebook openers becuase me personally, i still need some work on how to open a completely random chick on facebook