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How To Text A Girl

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Old 05-31-2010, 11:39 AM
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Ok so i have seen that people hate facebook cause it doesnt work with pick up. and people dont know how to get a girl even hotter for them over text. Lets think about it, the average women today sends about 1000-2000 text a month and they also keep there phone with them every day all day. So when you think about it, a girls phone or facebook is a portal to her anytime of the day. So having a good text game is one of the biggest thing you can do.

First problem guys usually have is not getting a response. So what we need to start with is how to get a girl to respond.

So how do you get a girl you are interested in to respond to your first text? The same way you get anyone to respond – by asking a question or making a statement that requires more info. Simple right? Well not exactly. It can’t just be any old question or statement otherwise “Hey what’s up?” would be an effective first text. And you already know why text like that don’t work. They are typical, boring and every other guy is sending her the same text. Yes they may occasionally get a response but they wont build attraction or move her closer to wanting to meet up with you again. So what kind of question do you ask? Well since you asked I feel compelled to respond. Simply take a basic question and re-word it so it becomes fun and playful.
Example:
“What’s up?”
becomes
“What kinda mischief are you causing today?”
An example of a fun statement that requires addition informations would be: “I just figured out what you would be if you were an animal.” If she want’s to know the answer she has to text you back. The secret is to make the statement be about her personally. Nothing makes someone more curious than what someone else thinks about them.So when trying to get a girl to respond you either want her to want to know what your talking about, or that it is different and away from the norm and it gets her out of the everyday text. Sometimes girls have been programmed to the usual text that sometimes they forget that you guys talked. SO by making ur text different you broke her out of her everday routine and it will shock her system. Lets say she gets a text from two guys. One AFC says" hey whats up or just hey" nothing there and she opens and doesnt respond. Then you text and give her a funny nickname and make it different like " Hey music pants, i was listening to something that reminded me of you. What kind of mischeif are u up to today" this breaks the norm, makes her smile and then engages her to respond to know what reminded you of her and to also tell you about the stuff she has been up to lately. Easy enoough to go right into building rapport and a great conversation to build her attraction for you.


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Old 05-31-2010, 02:44 PM
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well ill contine another add on to this but i would like to get ur guys idea and discussion. and if u try this, tell me if it helped and worked or if it didnt


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Old 06-01-2010, 01:20 AM
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This is something I'm still working on, I keep forgetting to say something like "What kind of mischief are you up to today?" right after I say "Hey whats up?"


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lol its all good. the way to good text game is playful and different/memorable. thats what makes for a good text game


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I'm going run some day game today. I'll let you know how it works in some fresh meat.


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lol ypu i have learned a little bit from that


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lol ok well if u guys havent thought about it, you obviously are not the only guy talking to these girls but no need for us to get mad or think they are playing us. they are trying to find a guy they want to date/marry. So what we have to do is change ourselves and just be better than the others guy. Luckily for us most guys send the same boring text like "hey cuie hows it going" or " hey whats up". believe it or not but most girls start getting used to the same old text and start just getting into a thing where it doesnt even phase them and sometimes that just dont remember if you guys talked. So when sending that first text ever or to just start the convo. you want to show her things and remind her of the positive feelings she has for you.

First text donts: first text dont ever's
For many guys the first text can wreck their heads and have them thinking for hours about what to say and for some reason they always say the same old lame sh1t. Thats where you guys start being different and turn something like "hey whats up" into "hey (her nickname), i just saw something that reminded me of you and made me laugh so hard i almost died!!" just being able to be different, be memorable, and warrant a response while bringing up her feelings is the way you make an effective first text.

What needs to be in a great first text:
-It needs to bring up the initial attraction between you too and bring back up some rapport topics or other things you did to get her first attracted to you.
-You need to warrant a reponse by either asking a question or stating something that she will more than likely want to know so she will text you back.
-Lastly it needs to be fun, playful and different so whenever you text she is excited to talk to you

So the basic idea behind having a great text game is basically changing your text from the normal boring sh1t and get her attracted to you just through text. So the way you do this is not only be different but different in a good way. This entire time i have said different but i didnt mean something crazy i just meant dont stick to the normal sh1t. Like you remember those times when you first started texting and you would just say things like "hey" or "whats up" nowadays girls want someone that can excite them and prove that without a doubt that they are attracted to you.

and i guess since i am bringing up first text we better just talk about how to first open a girl on facebook. I have on few occasions opened a girl on facebook that i have never met and know nothing about. The only thing you really can do is try to get to know her by her profile. Women these days have shown their lives and what its like to hang out with them all over facebook. So if you have a facebook friend you have never met and think is pretty hot you have to try and send an effective first message that gets her attracted, warrants a response and then gets you guys to start talking so you can try and pull the number. The way most guys mess up is their profile. Once a girl gets a message from you and sees your trying to hit on her she is going to check out your profile. So you need to make your profile seem like it is completely alpha. After that, you guys have to look decent and your more than likely going to get a response.

Ok one example for me which is probably arguable about whether its good or not. But here it is. I looked at her profile found that she really likes music, likes completely loves it and then i also saw her putting herself down on her looks. I was thinking "god damn, look at the HB8-9 puerto rican girl that has perfect curves and just overall amazing body and she says she didnt look good. So that was one thing, i need to be direct and compliment her to qualify her while boosting her ego. So just those two things, something she liked and her self esteem were the two things i put in my message to make it specifally for her. i put...

"Hey music pants. I just needed a girls opinion. Me and a friend have been arguing. So i had to show him he was wrong. Being a very attractive girl, do you hate it when guys compliment you on your looks in such a vulgar way? I have been arguing and saying its wrong to do it in such a vulgar way but in the end the compliment is good. This is so confusing and just needed someones help.

Its arguable and i have had tons of people fight with me on it, but im actually displaying that im an alpha. i seem like i am purely asking her for her opinion and thats it, but then im also opener her with an opinionated opener, so this will def. get her thinking and will more than likely reply, but im also giving her a nickname and building rapport and being different. So i feel it was pretty good but i also know i am still working on my facebook openers. Facebooking random girls is the hardest thing cause they can ignore you so easily and you have nothing to go off of. But now lets say you have a girl you went to high school with and just talked to every now and then but she is really hot. Thats different cause she has met you, you just need to start building the attrraction. She will more than likely reply cause she knows you and then she wont feel awkward that some random guy is trying to talk to her.lol

ps. i would love to discuss facebook openers becuase me personally, i still need some work on how to open a completely random chick on facebook


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